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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 29, 2013
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a city-boy (raised in NYC) that loves a weekend in the country.
I had an atypical upbringing... I won't even attempt to explain in writing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Juggling part-time parenthood (teenage son), career (commercial photographer) and me-time
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
trying to be good at whatever I do...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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non-fiction mostly...Memoirs by Augusten Burroughs & Simon Doonan, The Devil's Picnic by Taras Grescoe, derek jarman's garden
Movies...Weekend, Blue Valentine, My Week with Marilyn, Food Inc.
Theatre... Chinglish, The Real Thing
TV- The Daily Show.
Music- Adele at the Riviera, Rufus Wainwright at Ravinia
Recent downloads: Jamie Woon, William Fitzsimmons, Danger Mouse & Daniele Luppi, Donna Summer... RIP
Food: Breakfast at the Breslin- Poached eggs with curried lentils, yogurt and cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've happily lived in a cabin without electricity or running water so I think I'm pretty low maintenance ( was on a picturesque Swedish island and only for two weeks)
But... On a scale ranging from unimaginable pain to I’d get over it, I‘d miss my son, friends, eyeglasses, iThings, dental floss and work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
meeting someone
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book...
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