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Neviusia

37 / M / Straight / Available

Madison, Wisconsin

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:48pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I love the outdoors, hate it when I am forced to turn on the a.c., it makes me sick. And I never get sick. I love sweater weather (granted my threshold for "sweater weather" is relatively low) and night hikes. Pain, mmm (especially smashing fingers); one reason why I love construction work - much better than the soul injuring cubicle work. I'm looking for someone fun to share time with occasionally due to my busy schedule this summer. I would like to consider a meaningful pursuit; I am just picky, and would expect the same from you.
Exercise is must, I often get plenty from work, but ache for more. Mostly minimalist running. I enjoy yoga, when I go. The feel of batting balls is high on my list of favorite sensations; coupled with the anxiousness of getting hit by the pitch only adds to the pleasure. I've tried to take up target archery with a long recurve, I'm no good but feel it calms and connects me.
I play too much chess online, not anywhere near enough with real people.
Perhaps I drink a bit too much coffee and whiskey, though that's the extent of my addictive tendencies. Not too bad.
And I might be that annoying guy who, when walking through the woods or a park or just about anywhere really, spends my time identifying tree and plant species. I might be.
What I’m doing with my life
Having earned a degree in a field I am no longer interested in pursuing I have now pursued my true calling - horticulture with an emphasis in sustainable landscaping, it blends my interests of construction, design, and science.
I work hard so that playing hard feels well-earned. Balance of life through the extremes?
I’m really good at
hurting myself and healing.
The first things people usually notice about me
The tall bald guy, I have accepted this title much like accepting the title of being referred to as my older brother's younger counterpart when I was young. I don't like it, but recognize how it makes it easy for people
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Midnight's Children, Cat's Cradle, Demian, The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch, We, Omnivore's Dilemma, The Lorax
Seven Samurai, Dead Man, Brazil, Tetsuo, Spirited Away
Dexter, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead
Waits, Case, Callahan, Loveless, Jaymay, McCauley, MacKaye, Malkmus
Soups, sushi, locally and humanely produced. Processed?, no thanks.
The six things I could never do without
endorphins
sweating
local foods
happy hour
my glasses
manual of woody landscape plants
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why did they plant that there?, slowing stormwater, how much corn fields upset me, should i pop that blister?, rip off that callus? did that hurt?, perhaps i need to drink some more water.
On a typical Friday night I am
typical? ummm.. i'll choose hopping on my bike and going for a night ride, that is probably the most typical. plans do change
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners