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28 Portland, OR Genderfluid, Non-binary

Genderfluid, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 29
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 4" (1.92m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), LISP (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Programmer, Game designer/producer, foodie, music junkie.


I like to learn, I like to create, but most of all I like to better myself.

Androgynous in demeanor, flamboyant in attitude, loves learning and new experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting my career, enjoying life, and making amazing things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Practical thinking, design, cooking, and using my voice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way I carry myself: Light, genuine, fun. The pretty consistently messed up hair (don't forget an inevitably missed spot shaving most weekdays) is probably up there too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Dark Tower Series, Chuck Palanuk books, Orson Scott Card, Anne Rice
Movies: Memento, Clerks, Fight Club, Enemy Mine, Pulp Fiction, The Emperor's New Groove
Shows: ADVENTURE TIME, Archer, Community, Day[9] Daily, The Daily Show, Dr. Who, Glee, Supernatural, Torchwood, No Reservations, Portlandia
Music: Ke$ha (Sorryaboutit), Kimbra, Coheed and Cambria, Prog Rock in general, Ayeron, Skrillex, Lady Gaga, M-flo, Rammstein, Gorillaz, Circa Survive, Forgive Durden, Purity Ring, fun., Radiohead
Food: Italian, Indian, Japanese, Thai, Mexican (NOMNOMNOMBURRITOS), Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A computer with an internet connection (I absolutely need information, it's a crutch)
2. spotify
3. good food / wine / company
4. my glasses (for I am blind as a bat)
5. laughter (because life needs to be fun)
6. A comfortable bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What/where I'm going, new game ideas, fun new things to cook, strategies in games I'm playing, new songs to play/learn on my ukulele.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home playing games and cooking good food. Maybe a few beers or a glass of wine. Perhaps out at a happy hour or doing karaoke. I'm a homebody at heart, but I'm definitely down for a new adventure or experience, given the opportunity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a bad habit of overthinking/overcomplicating things, especially in social situations. I do best with people that are brutally honest and have a good sense of humor. I take on too much and I let it overwhelm me from time to time, but :> I'm working on it.
You should message me if
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You want to talk about games, game design, cooking, music, science, or anything else you're amazingly nerdy about and don't mind an open minded discussion regarding.