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NewOrleansLover

49 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:07pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a writer, a father, a musician, a reporter, a romantic, an activist. I'm relatively new to the online dating thing (and not exactly sold on it so far, to be honest), but my sis says it's what the cool kids do nowadays. Friends would say I'm an unusual mix : I have a laid-back but strong personality; I am a world traveler but also something of a homebody; I'm a politically engaged intellectual who rocks out in a garage band. I do revere New Orleans though, so you get extra credit if you've spent much time there, or if you want to visit sometime soon....maybe with me?
What I’m doing with my life
Days, I'm working for social justice and climate survival. Nights, I'm with my daughter, writing, playing music or hanging with friends.
I’m really good at
Listening
Getting my daughter to laugh
Languages
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Right now I'm trying to get the rest of the band to learn, really learn, "Lovesong" by The Cure: "Whenever I'm alone with you, you make me feel like I am home again...." I'm also loving a neglected old gem of Dylan's, "Emotionally Yours." Like I said, a romantic....

As for books, maybe the nicest thing about being a writer is that I can read books and plausibly tell myself I'm working. I won't list all the ones I admire here, as that could take hours; suffice to say, I adore books, and if you do too, we'll have something fundamental, endlessly fresh and beautiful in common. Movies too, for that matter, though I don't make those myself....

Food? I like pretty much all kinds, and I can cook.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
The outdoors/hiking, biking, etc.
Close friends
Reading
Music
Yoga
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to fill the empty page; how to leave my daughter's generation a livable planet; how to have the best fun possible in the meantime.
On a typical Friday night I am
Every other Friday is movie night with my daughter. On the other weekends, anything goes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm older than I look ... or act. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are kind, sexy, give a damn and wanna go to New Orleans sometime.