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43 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:27pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Practical. Analytical. Friendly. Assertive. Goofy. Motivated. I'm looking for someone sincere, easy to share a laugh with, asks questions, communicates feelings/expectations, goal-oriented, emotionally intelligent and values accountability. It is important for me to feel a sense of friendship, as well as, a strong emotional and physical connection.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I will be a licensed psychotherapist by the end of this year. I've worked in nonprofits, public schools, medical settings/hospital, and currently have a job as a social worker. I enjoy spending time with family, friends, my dogs, going to concerts, lectures, sports events/hockey games, classes/workshops, mini road trips, movies, book stores, theater, thrift stores, etc...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Doing what I say. I have a good BS meter. I'm genuine and have no interest in playing games. I'm weird in a normal crowd, and normal in a weird crowd. I'm not good at hiding my feelings/opinions and appreciate/want the same in a partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that I am....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
VNV Nation, Depeche Mode, Peter Murphy, NIN, Morrissey, Metallica, Johnny Cash...Mad Max, Blade Runner, Shark Tank, The Good Wife, Judge Judy, Grey's Anatomy, House Hunters... Italian, Chinese, Mexican, American food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1-family & friends
2-my dogs
3-my car, music, a GPS, my camera
4-motivation, love, and something to look forward to
5-trust & respect
6-diet coke, my sunglasses, black clothing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My actions. Feelings and consequences of behaviors. I'm curious about people in general. I'm a planner, yet also love when I have free time. I wish I could travel more.... and spend less time driving in traffic. I miss the laughter and simple flow of things when you're in a good relationship based on honesty, communication and trust.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a night person. My eyes are very sensitive to the sun. I'm not the camping (you can be) type person. As much as I enjoy time with a partner, I also need my alone time. I really appreciate a good kisser. I usually find more in common with business, science, computer, and/or educational professionals. I'm looking for quality not quantity regarding my time on this site/my life.
You should message me if
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You are looking for the possibility of a monogamous relationship. You want to share some interests, have some of your own, and would like to explore new ones together. You basically know who you, what you want, and have an active sense of humor. You enjoy or at least are okay being around dogs. You believe good communication skills are essential, and act with integrity. Please live in the Bay Area.