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43 M Kansas City, MO

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm an intelligent (I know it sounds like bragging, but it's not intended to; if you say you like intelligent guys, isn't this the best way to let you know), witty guy with a good job and an uncomplicated life looking for a woman with an adventurous spirit and (mostly) sweet disposition. I have my own view of the world, but am mostly a live and let live kind of person. I've led an interesting life and learned a great deal from it, and am looking forward to making the most of whatever time I have left.

I enjoy traveling, baseball, riding my motorcycle, and exploring new places around town. I also enjoy staying in and reading, playing games, or catching something interesting on television. As a long time computer professional, the computer is where I usually catch up on news, work on new projects, watch a movie, and play games. I'm happy to take a break from looking at the screen, though, since I do that all day long at work.

So, the questions here are fun and enlightening, but I realize that that 100% match with someone isn't realistic and hope we can meet somewhere in the middle in cases where we don't agree or have the same experiences. People can change with time and develop new values, habits, and tastes, and a person's past doesn't have to determine their future. Most of us have probably had a wild or difficult phase that taught us a great deal about ourselves.

I think a good match for me enjoys traveling and learning about the world, but loves being at home as well. She should be tolerant of my passion for baseball, gadgets, and trivial facts. She appreciates my old-fashioned values but also helps me keep up with the times. Sound like you, or maybe generally in the ballpark? Feel free to drop me a note!
What I’m doing with my life
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Making the most of my career opportunities, getting in shape, planning to see the world, learning everything I can about the human experience.

This year has been about learning how to eat healthy and exercising, and it is gong great. Gradually getting into the best shape of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems, analyzing complex situations, conversation, keeping a cool head, remembering things, fixing stuff, games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and acerbic wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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History, philosophy, science fiction, "Pearls Before Swine" comic strip :)

Quirky, offbeat comedies; documentaries; the occasional summer blockbuster. With enough arm-twisting I'll watch a romantic comedy and might even like it.

Really broad taste in music, but my roots are in classic rock. I'll listen to just about anything live except hip hop.

Pizza, pizza, pizza, Mexican, Italian, good, greasy burger.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many of the emails I send here get deleted without a reply. Not feeling sorry for myself, but online dating can be brutal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At my favorite sports bar for happy hour, exploring new bars and restaurants, listening to live music, or quietly recovering at home from a hard week at work. When cold weather hits, I love to break out the board games.
You should message me if
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You enjoy stimulating conversation and trying new things.