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New_Tool_SN

28 Odenton, MD Woman, Cis Woman

Woman, Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Czech (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), Latin (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In reality, I'm just here for the booze.

I've got a husband, (AnUpwardSpiral) and he's not going anywhere. I'm not looking for "a bit on the side", and I'm not looking for cheaters.

Its called ethical non-monogamy. Deal with it. Or don't. Who am I to tell you how to live your life? I'm just a stranger on the Internet.

Also, I continue to reinforce the non monogamous stereotype of being overweight. Though maybe that's just an American stereotype these days.

I'm going to get serious now: I enjoy a wide variety of relationships. I find value in experiencing all types of connections, including the more libidinous, as well as the more intellectual. I don't think any one type of relationship is more valuable than the other just based on its configuration.

The only common theme throughout my relationships, regardless their length or investment, is the importance of respect and comfort with one another. I will not be dishonest with you, and I expect the same courtesy. I will be open, honest, and genuine - I'm looking to meet you, rather than the version of yourself you think will please me best. I do not think becoming friends, rather than lovers or partners, is a failure. I also don't think that total incompatibility is a failure - there are a lot of people out there and you don't have to click with them all!

If you're looking to meet me in any capacity, I hope you feel the same, and show up ready to meet me with genuine curiosity, and few, if any, preconceived notions of how you want to fit me into your life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm thinking about going into the popsicle stick joke business. I'm pretty great at it. I can't think of one off the top of my head, but rest-assured, you'll probably hear something popsicle-stick-y. Ooo, sticky.

More seriously, I've found myself in a job that has morphed into an actual career. Not sure how I feel about that, but the money's good.

Also, as someone raised (though, not born) in Maryland, I'm probably spending a non-negligible amount of my time putting Old Bay on things.

And as someone born in Texas (with a Texas native for a mother, and 4 years of college in Houston under my belt), I'm probably spending a non-negligible amount of time hunting down decent BBQ in the area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sarcasm. If that's not your thing, then I don't know what to tell you.

Puns and portmanteaus. And punmanteaus.

Expressing myself clearly and effectively.

*Starting* knitting projects.

Twerking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height

Dat ass

I have what I affectionately call "Resting Eeyore Face". This is similar to "Resting Bitch Face", but instead of looking angry, I just look thoroughly unimpressed.

The septum piercing

Beefy arms
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Jr., Neil Gaiman, Thomas Pynchon, Terry Pratchett or Jane Austen. A lot of postmodern works. Huge fantasy fan, and I really love the ASOIAF series by George R. R. Martin and the Mistborn Trilogy by Brandon Sanderson. I read a lot of non-fiction books about random people, places, events or concepts. I'm a bibliophile, and I have way too many books for my own good (if there is such a thing). I dig a lot of the classics.

Movies: A few of my favorite movies are: The Princess Bride, Center Stage, Hot Fuzz, Rear Window, Boondock Saints, Say Anything, Super Troopers and Labyrinth. Big fan of comic book based movies, too (no matter how terrible they are - I'm looking at you Fantastic Four!).

TV Shows: Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Orphan Black, Last Week Tonight, The Daily Show, IT Crowd, Black Books, Psych, Downton Abbey, The West Wing, The Paradise, Call the Midwife, Scrubs, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Parks and Rec, Longmire, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Sherlock, Playing House, Broad City, Vikings

Music: A brief sampling of a few of my favorite musicians are: Tool, Swallow the Sun, Sabaton, Eluveitie, Say Anything, STYX, Garth Brooks, Stevie Ray Vaughan, The Cranberries, Uz Jsme Doma, Jonathan Coulton, Trampled By Turtles, Marmozets, Motion City Soundtrack, Panic! At the Disco, Sevendust, TaySwift, Ke$ha, P!nk and Michael Buble. My favorite genres include: metal (death, doom, melodic death/doom, folk/viking, grindcore, power, goregrind, brutal death), progressive, hard rock, classic rock, jazz, country, bluegrass, newgrass, indie rock, techno, blues, avant-garde punk, rockabilly, psychobilly, classic punk, pop punk, ska, pop, grunge, classical, alternative, r&b, comedy, acapella, broadway musicals

Food: Animals and animal products.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
Scotchy Scotch Scotch. Here it goes down, down into my belly,
Internet Memes (as a replacement for a real sense of humor),
My big toe(s),
Light Emitting Diodes,
Palindromes
and Parenthetical Statements
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Farticles. They're *everywhere*.

The large crossover between the Poly community and Kink community. Whatever happened to sex without power dynamics, pain, props or theatrics?

How do hipsters have the uncanny ability to describe the things they like in such a way that it automatically makes me want to hate those things?

The Washington football team could end all of the controversy by simply changing their mascot to a potato.

Why does being a Leo "on the cusp of Cancer" sound like a medical condition?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing vidya games.

Fantasizing about being out at a dance party.

A space unicorn.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm the King of Croatia.

I hesitate to message men who are shorter than I am because it makes me feel threatening, not because I don't think they're attractive/cool.

I've got it bad for lumberjacks and/or vikings.
Flannel and/or horned helms are not required, but are encouraged.

I want to touch your beard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
At least one of these applies to you:

You enjoy jokes involving Jesus, your mom, your face, your mom's face, or bodily functions. Or Jesus performing bodily functions unto your mom's face.

You're not *too* overwhelmed by my sheer awesomeness.

You want to discuss a finer point of my profile, or you found a typo (how embarrassing).

You're poly or poly-friendly.

My being vanilla is not going to cause a problem for you, should a relationship go that route.

You have a nice face. I'm a sucker for a good face.

You have a nice beard. I'm a sucker for a good beard.

You're lit'rally Ron Swanson.

You don't fail at life. If you message me and you fail at life, be prepared for a scathing response.