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NewbieLibrarian

27 New Haven, CT Woman

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My friends and I hang out quite a bit. I live in Wallingford, but typically I can be found somewhere in New Haven. Cask Republic is as favorite as well as Barcelona, Kelly's, Bar, sometimes Karaoke Hero's, Mamoun's, and a ton of other places that I can't think of right now. We're big fans of game nights, movie nights, as well as jumping in to a car to drive to Sleepy Hollow, just to see what it looks like.

On a personal level, when not with friends I can be found on my couch/ in the bed, reading. If you couldn't tell from the name I'm a librarian... sort of, and books are kind of a big deal to me. I've driven to South Carolina to go to a book convention and I'm not ashamed to admit it, books are a pretty big part of my life. #nerdgirlproblems.

I'm on this thing... again, because I'm not entirely sure how to meet real people. Meeting people in college is one thing, and meeting them at work is also pretty easy, but I work with old married people, so we don't have much in common outside of complaining about library patrons, soooooo, here I am. It also doesn't help that I suck at small talk. Text (and OKC messages) such as "hey what's up" and "how was your weekend" don't really do it for me.

I'm not sure if I'm looking for a relationship but I think I am. I haven't had too many of them, I've always been more of the guys best friend type, I'm called for a night of pizza and beer, not to go on a date, *shrug*. I'm so use to the friendship thing that sometimes relationships can feel weird and I think I unconsciously mess them up. I think the only way I'll feel comfortable is to date someone who feels like a close friend. Someone who I feel comfortable with when I look a mess in the morning, or I'm in a cranky mood and just want to bitch. Yup that's probably the way it'll have to go. I think I made it sound complicated but I just want to feel comfortable being 100% me and I haven't been able to find that with someone that I don't consider a close friend *sigh*.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Children and Teen Librarian. It a lot harder than people think, I kind of don't like when people are like "you need a degree for that? Why? You don't do anything."

I spend all day with kids anywhere from newborns to seventeen. I love what I do, there's not much more to say than that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, writing, and karaoke, talking, taboo (the game)!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kind of tall for a girl, and I kind of talk a lot. And people tell me that I'm animated, I think that means I just move a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read lots of YA because I work in the youth department of a library. I have to know what's going on. Top two favorite YA books are Looking for Alaska by John Green and Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Sanez.

For the adult books, I love Anne Bishop, Kelley Armstrong, Kim Harrison, Janet Evanovich, and more.

Movies/ TV: ONCE UPON A TIME!! I also love Criminal Minds Firefly, Serenity, Modern Family, Law and Order, Resurrection, Discovery Health Channel, HGTV, and Investigation Discovery. But I don't actually have cable anymore so I watch what I find on Netflix and Hulu Plus.

Music: OWL CITY!!!, Paramore, music from the 90's like Simple Plan and Panic at he Disco, and A TON of Musicals. I was a Theatre Major in Undergrad.

Food: I'll try most things once. I don't like lots of cheese though. (I know weird)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Chapstick
Books/ Nook
glasses (I'm blind and don't so contacts)
Cell phone (every time I don't have it something bad happens like a blown tire, or something)
Hoodie (I'm always cold)
Blankets (I like to snuggle to stay warm, I have two wrapped around me now)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If grad school will ever end.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It use to be reading, watching TV, and drinking a beer on my couch, but my friends got tired of that so typically we're at a bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a jacket from Free! Iwatobi Swim Club, but most of you have no idea what that is so it's cool.
You should message me if
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I said anything remotely interesting, or if you're capable of beginning a conversation with something other than, "hey", "hi", "what's up?" or "How's your day." NO offense to those people but typically I can't think of anything relevant to say.