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39 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:41pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm playful, spontaneous and easy to be around. I appreciate real connection, good conversation and laughter. I think I'm funny - I hope you will too. I've been told I'm fun to be with and light-hearted. I agree! I'm also to earth and transparent about how I feel and what I want. I'm really looking for someone who can match that quality and appreciate it.

I'm often asked, 'why are you still single?' I've been waiting for someone who is a good fit, because I want love to be forever. I've dated a fair share, and know who I am looking for, but it took some time and mistakes : ) Some of us are late bloomers andI'm finally ready : )

My personality? I'm just happy to just be happy, and I love it if you are happy (and get weird if you are moody because I'll not know what to do to make it better). And smart - I'm always coming up with pretty damn good ideas and strategies. I like simple joys, finding fun and laughter in whatever I can. I'm compassionate, but with good boundaries. Work is work, and it is not my identity. I love what I do, but I love being away from it and having fun too!

About the bike in the picture - I'm better as the back seat passenger but I LOVE cafe racers and love if you have a bike!

What I am looking for: a great date, who might turn in to a great friend who might turn in to a great lover, husband, father, et. But no pressure, its best to take it a moment at a time.

Who I am looking for:

A good man with a great heart, a spirit of adventure, and who thinks I'm rad and treats me well.

I am attracted a man who knows who he is. Because I know who I am. If you think you are right for me, drop me a line!
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it as best I can!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being serious and giving good advice.
Then laughing again because I am not good at being serious for a long time unless I am being paid.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, I have one nice smile, and it's easy to make me smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: About a boy, The Wedding Singer, Shawshank Redemption
Shows: Homeland and yep, Downton Abbey, Orange is the New Black, Nashville.
Music: Bruce Cockburn, The Paper Kites, Avett Brothers, Old Crow Medicine Show, Mozart, other Brazilian favs, Meditative music. Depends on my mood and what I energy I need to feel.
Food: Mom and Dad's home cooking, or really great Mexican, or really fancy upscale tasty - almost anything edible that Alice Waters would approve of and has not been genetically modified.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One cup of great coffee in the morning
Brazilian rice and beans
Enough money in my savings account
Belly-aching big time laughter
Something to look forward to
Yep, of course, my loved and treasured friends and fam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's scary yet entertaining inside my brain. I never know what might jump in to my mind given a change of scenery or a new concept!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere visiting someone, usually sipping wine and eating nice food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some times it's too hot to sleep with pajamas on!!
You should message me if
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something resonates. But tell me why. Don't write me a message like 'we have a lot in common, lets meet for drinks'. Tell me what you resonate with and why.