I'm soulful, playful, and off-the-cuff. I'm a lot nicer than you expect me to be. Yet, I don't put up with much bullshit. A little, but not too much. I am shockingly honest (but not impolite) about what I think and feel - and appreciate someone who can handle this. I'm also very down to earth and transparent. That can throw people off as its unusual - and I'm really looking for someone who can match that quality and appreciate it.
I'm confident in who I am and what I am looking for in a partner. And frankly, I'm happy to stay single until I meet a man who is a great fit for me, a person who really enjoys life, and loving, oh and laughing. Not looking for perfection. I realize it's impossible. And I'm cool but far from perfect too. Don't we all fall in love with fantasies on paper? I know I have, you probably have too.
Who I am looking for:
I enjoy confident, emotionally available, soulful men who are able to express their needs and wishes since I'm bad at guessing, I'm interested in a good, soulful man with a great heart, a spirit of adventure, and an appreciation for appreciating and being grateful for this funky, strange, exhilarating, sometimes frustrating journey we call life.
I am attracted to confidence and a person who is warm and receptive, and knows who he is. I appreciate a bit of an edge, and mischief. A little danger is exciting too. Sarcasm has it's place but life is too short to complain.
That being said - if you got that far, read on - here are the delightful parts about me:
In All Playfulness:
My personality? Think really smart golden retriever. I'm just happy to just be happy, and I love it if you are happy (and get weird if you are moody because I'll not know what to do to make it better). And smart - I'm always coming up with pretty damn good ideas and strategies.
I love being silly, laughing at myself, at you, at that guy over there - I indulge in the occasional snarky comments, crack up at unmerited cynicism, or moments when people take themselves too damn seriously. Relish in spontaneity. Seductive, sensual flirting, staring, smiling, looking away - all give me butterflies.
Amazed and fascinated by experiences and moments of beauty is how I engage with life - tasting an awesome cup of coffee, listening to a dark, sensuous thunderstorm, witnessing the radiant shades of clouds at sunset, divine connection in conversation. I love to explore - moods, musics, energy.
I'm just as likely to don a cowboy hat, boots and jeans as I am to dress with elegance for a night out in the city, strutting in high heels and a fancy dress. Take me sailing. To the symphony. Dive bars. Five stars. I can't be put in a box. I am many genres, but always myself. If you get it, and get me, I'll love you. Big time.
If I was describing myself like one describes a wine I'd say I'm playful, conscious, strong, funny, intense, curious, joyous, receptive, real, radiant, with spicy notes and smoky appeal (haha).