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Nic-

29 / F / bisexual / Single

Asheville, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am Artistic, open-minded, and easy-going.

My Self-Summary

I'm 28, completed your standard liberal arts education with a major in English and a minor in studio art. I enjoy a lot of things, but am not "Passionate" about anything. Easy-going, I'm generally up for anything -- but I prefer to follow rather than lead. Both out-going and shy, depending on my mood. I love laughing and making others laugh, and learning new, random things. I'm addicted to horror movies even though they can scare me for days. I love learning new things, and have been a custom framer, a bookseller, a barista, worked for a website design company, and a construction equipment company. I believe firmly that it's not what you're doing, it's the people you're with and your attitude that makes an experience good or bad.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm relatively new to the Asheville area, currently living a rather isolated lifestyle as my friends are scattered in different states, or countries. Looking to meet new people, as friends or potential lovers. Currently, I'm trying to stay afloat at work where we're understaffed, and spending a lot of time reading and writing. I read and write homoerotic stories, currently not-for-profit, but hope to begin submitting stories for publication in the near future.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at writing, or so people tell me. I'm good at synthesizing -- information or materials -- which is to say I can combine materials and ideas to create new ones. My best art is multi-media, my best ideas combine information from various academic fields.
I'm good at making people laugh, though I generally like to feel I know someone a little first before I start joking around.

The first things people usually notice about me

I get a lot of comments on my firm handshake.

In all seriousness, I believe people notice one of two things, depending on my mood. On a good day, they notice I'm outgoing and self-assured, on a mediocre day they notice I'm reserved and thoughtful.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books -- There are way too many to name here. An Arrow's flight. Jane Eyre. American Gods. Cat's Cradle. Survivor. Written on the body. Herzog. Exquisite corpse. Of Human Bondage. to name a few..

Movies -- Secretary, labyrinth, catch me if you can, quills, 28 days later, grave of the fireflies, I'm sure I'm forgetting some... I like horror flicks, as mentioned. I enjoy keeping those awful sci-fi channel flicks on in the background while reading. Beyond that, I have very eclectic taste in films.

Music -- entirely too eclectic. I am not someone who listens to music often -- I don't even keep the radio on in my car. There's a lot I like, spanning just about every genre, so it's easier to say I *don't* like most country and most metal. If I can't make out the lyrics, I'm unlikely to enjoy it.

Food -- asian. Chinese, Japanese, Thai. And Indian. Hands down.

The six things I could never do without

1. literature
2. movies
3. a creative outlet
4. my friends
5. Juice - real, 100% fruit juice.
6. A warm blanket.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Writing. What I want to do with my future, what I need to do to improve myself personally and professionally.

On a typical Friday night I am

Currently? At home, reading and watching movies. Preferably? Out with friends/a date at a movie or anything else.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I write and read erotica.

You should message me if

If you think I sound interesting. If you're open-minded, like a variety of activities and have the interest/willingness to teach them to someone if necessary. If you're funny, and kind but to-the-point/firm. If you're interested in a friend or real dating, not just a hook-up.