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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:46pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Came back to Chicago in 2012. I grew up here in a big Italian family (even the Irish side is Italian). Spent 13 years in the Marine Corps living all over the country. Still trying to figure out a way to get back to SoCal though.

I'm focused, driven, and goal-oriented with a positive outlook on life. Can be a homebody at times (I love my apartment, give me a break!), but enjoy being active and outside as well. Love to travel and experience new cultures and people. I consider myself to be a caring, kind, and genuine person with a goofy sense of humor. Hopeless romantic still waiting to be swept off my feet. Prefer a slow dance over a sleepover. Hope to have a family one day, but for now a date would be nice.
What I’m doing with my life
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Flying is my passion. I flew helicopters for the Marine Corps.

Still trying to find my way as a civilian. I'm able to go two and a half weeks without a haircut and 6 days without shaving which is a personal record for me. It's not as easy as you think! Regardless of my path, I'm always looking to learn, grow, achieve.

Update Dec '14: haircuts every 10 days. I've regressed. Back in the USMC reserves so at least I have an excuse. Working in safety at United Airlines and loving it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. My parents are both excellent cooks. My dad is a culinary genius. I didn't realize how well I ate until I left home. Since then I've been trying to feed myself as well as my parents did. I'm not there yet, but got pretty good in the kitchen while trying.
I also know my way around a cockpit.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my eyes. I squint when I smile (see photos) so you won't catch my eyes and smile at the same time. One of these days I'll learn to keep them open in pictures. Sometimes I try to open them really wide before the flash goes off so by the time the picture takes my eyes are open a normal amount. In case you're wondering, that doesn't work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ugh ok Harry Potter. I love it! Not really a fiction reader but I used to pretend I was magic as a kid so Harry Potter sparked my interest. Mostly enjoy reading self-improvement books and military/intelligence history.
Most recently read The Phrophet by Kahlil Gibran and The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs.

Movies: Top Gun (It's a prerequisite for my career). Guilty pleasure: Sister Act and Sister Act 2 (oh God did I really just admit that?).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Faith
4) iPhone (I know, I know)
5) A kitchen
6) Costco
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to cook next. That and San Diego. I miss it!

I'm big on personal growth. I'm always thinking about what I want to achieve next in life. The Marine Corps always made that pretty easy. Now that I'm the captain of my own ship I'm having a harder time figuring that out. Chances are, the next step will have something to do with aircraft or San Diego. Hopefully both!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grabbing dinner with friends. Like to keep my Friday nights low-key. I work hard during the week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Besides mentioning that Sister Act was my one of my favorite movies? I'm gay!
You should message me if
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You're a good guy with a good heart. You're adventurous, intelligent, driven, and have passion for something in life.