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33 M Chicago, IL

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Came back to Chicago in 2012. I grew up here in a big Italian family (even the Irish side is Italian). Spent 13 years in the Marine Corps living all over the country before I came back to Chicago. Still trying to figure out a way to get back to SoCal though.

I'm focused, driven, and goal-oriented with a positive outlook on life. Can be a homebody at times (I love my apartment, give me a break!), but enjoy being active and outside as well. Love to travel and experience new cultures and people. I consider myself to be a caring, kind, and genuine person with a goofy sense of humor. Hopeless romantic still waiting to be swept off my feet. Prefer a slow dance over a sleepover. Hope to have a family one day, but for now a nice date would be nice.
What I’m doing with my life
Flying is my passion. I flew helicopters for the Marine Corps. Still trying to find my way as a civilian. I'm able to go two and a half weeks without a haircut and 6 days without shaving which is a personal record for me. It's not as easy as you think! Regardless of my path, I'm always looking to learn, grow, achieve. Trying to find a place in commercial aviation.
Update Jan, '14: haircuts every 10 days. I've regressed.
I’m really good at
Cooking. My parents are both excellent cooks. My dad is a culinary genius. I didn't realize how well I ate until I left home. Since then I've been trying to feed myself as well as my parents did. I'm not there yet, but got pretty good in the kitchen while trying.
I also know my way around a cockpit.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my eyes. I squint when I smile (see photos) so you won't catch my eyes and smile at the same time. One of these days I'll learn to keep them open in pictures. Sometimes I try to open them really wide before the flash goes off so by the time the picture takes my eyes are open a normal amount. In case you're wondering, that doesn't work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ugh ok Harry Potter. I love it! Not really a fiction reader but I used to pretend I was magic as a kid so Harry Potter sparked my interest. Mostly enjoy reading self-improvement books and military/intelligence history.
Most recently read The Phrophet by Kahlil Gibran and The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs.

Movies: Top Gun (It's a prerequisite for my career). Guilty pleasure: Sister Act and Sister Act 2 (oh God did I really just admit that?).
The six things I could never do without
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Faith
4) iPhone (I know, I know)
5) A kitchen
6) Costco
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I'm going to cook next. That and San Diego. I miss it!

I'm big on personal growth. I'm always thinking about what I want to achieve next in life. The Marine Corps always made that pretty easy. Now that I'm the captain of my own ship I'm having a harder time figuring that out. Chances are, the next step will have something to do with aircraft or San Diego. Hopefully both!
On a typical Friday night I am
Grabbing dinner with friends. Like to keep my Friday nights low-key. I work hard during the week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Besides mentioning that Sister Act was my one of my favorite movies? I'm gay!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a good guy with a good heart. You're adventurous, intelligent, driven, and have passion for something in life.