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42 Ardmore, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:02am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not rich & uber successful or a really cool starving artist. What I offer is balance. I don't have debt, I always have clean sheets in the guest bedroom, and I'm always there for my family and friends. But I'm also the guy who's constantly looking for fun. I break the rules that deserve breaking. I seek out fun and ways to make things more fun for the people around me. I'm always thinking of others first but I'm nobody's doormat. I'm happy in the moment but I'm always striving for a better future. I'll fit in at the country club or the dive bar but I won't be faking it at either place.

If you talked to my friends they'd say I'm generous, reliable, easy-going, considerate, classy, fun, and that I spare no detail when entertaining.

I'm used to hearing, "you're the best neighbor ever!"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Advancing my career without losing track of the important things in life.
- Throwing good parties and hosting impromptu gatherings.
- Going out for live music / regularly supporting friends at their band gigs and open mic nights.
- Going to Phillies games with friends.
- Exploring Philly's coolest bars and restaurants.
- Taking the scenic route in/out of the city.
- Enjoying an occasional roadtrip.
- Vacationing at the beach or a friend's lake house.
- Hiking and playing tennis(poorly) ...when I have a cute partner.
- Being the Best Friend, Brother, Uncle, and Neighbor I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Listening.
- Hosting BBQs, Campfires, & Parties.
- Making chili, meatballs & "gravy", and breakfast sammies.
- Parallel Parking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mostly Autobiographies. Malcolm Gladwell's books. Perks of being a Wallflower.

Music: Rock, Blues, Jazz and Funk. I like to see jam bands, singer songwriters, and artists who play their own instruments and fuze different styles. I love live music so you won't have to twist my arm to see your favorite bands.

Movies: Comedy or Drama more than action: Hoosiers, Animal House, Meatballs, Trading Places, Pulp Fiction, The Big Chill, Easy Rider, The Big Lebowski, Scrapple, Dumb & Dumber, Christmas Vacation, Anchor Man, Almost Famous, Love Actually.

Shows: Mad Men, Weeds, Entourage, Californication, Girls, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Shameless (US & Brittish versions), Bored To Death, Games of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, Parenthood, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Orange is the New Black, Broad City, TripTank.

Food: Italian especially Pizza, & Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Live Music
a Plan
Someone/Something to Care About
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Finding the right balance in life.
- Solutions.
- The little details that make a big difference.
- The next party I'm planning.
- What bands are playing nearby in the next few months.
- Why the women who view my profile or send me messages usually live in another state.
- What I said wrong when a girl who contacts me doesn't respond again or when I get the silent treatment after 4 or 5 dates that seemed to go really well.
- Should I quit this site and learn how to "accidentally" crash my shopping cart into girls instead?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having friends over or meeting them out for drinks. On Saturday nights I'm usually with friends hearing live music. I'm always flexible and enjoy taking a girl to dinner and doing things she enjoys.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was the President of a street gang in the 3rd Grade. We had to change our name when the older kids called us the Blue Falcons instead of the Black Falcons. We existed for a couple years and 2 name changes but never had a rumble.

Also, if I've looked at your profile but didn't message it doesn't mean I wasn't interested. It's more likely to be because something in your profile lead me to believe I didn't meet your criteria. So, if you're interested, say hi.
You should message me if
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If you think we might get along.
If you enjoy going out for live music and think Jazz Fest or other music festivals would make for a fun vacation or long weekend getaway.
If meeting up with friends for drinks at bar sounds like a normal fun weekend activity, not something you used to do before you grew up.
(I don't send many intro messages anymore. When I do, I usually take the time to send a thoughtful message and only if we have a pretty high match percentage and live within 30 minutes of each other. It still feels like I'm sending messages into a black hole. So if you think we might be a match, please don't wait to see if I message you. I'd love to get a message from you.)