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36 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 10:27pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My relationships are the biggest way I relate to life. Wouldn't give up my friends or family for anything!
Favorite thing to do is get to know someone long into the evening over a glass of wine. Nothing beats good conversation.
First things I notice about a woman are her eyes and her smile. It also helps if sarcasm is her first language, as it's mine too!
When I'm not exhausted from the 9-5, I'm always game to get out for a round of golf, tennis, pick-up basketball, skiing. Bumming around the city and hanging out in a cafe on a lazy Sunday afternoon is also nice.
My favorite quote: "We can do no great things in life, only small things with great Love". - Mother Theresa.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a wannabe philosopher-writer trying to break out of the 9-5 grind and start my own projects. I've got degrees in Psychology and Consciousness Studies. I'm looking to write books, hold personal development workshops, teach classes, maybe even do some sort of counseling. Getting a job in social media but am busy enjoying my relationships in life and getting out to enjoy myself as much as possible!

I would love to create personal development courses based on what I learned at grad. school. (ex. - changing careers, discovering your passions and purpose, working with your own shadow, etc.). There's a lot of networking involved but for now, I seem to be keeping my daily life together and enjoying my wonderful relationships with friends, family, etc. In the meantime, i think I'll take it slow for now by grabbing a glass of wine and finishing a book! :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, making people laugh, kissing, writing, debating....
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sarcasm/sense of humor and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wow, I could never fit them all in:
Music: U2, Sentinel, Dave Serotkin, John Mayer, Dave Matthews, Kanye West (guilty pleasure)... yes, I believe U2 is better than the Beatles, no I don't care if you disagree...
Movies: Matrix, The Fountain, Legend of Bagger Vance, Bourne trilogy, Lord of the Rings...
Books: Harry Potter, Legend of Bagger Vance, the Art of Happiness, One Taste, Spectrum of Consciousness, Integral Psychology...
Food: Steak, Beef Stroganoff, Chicken Tikka Masala, Shrimp Creole, Wild Rice Casserole
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends/family.
A woman's beautiful smile.
Red meat.
My Jayhawks
Integral philosophy
Mom's wild rice casserole.
(guess I can't limit myself to 6!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Unlocking myself on deeper levels and what it's gonna take to give my gift to the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully out with my friends. Maybe a movie, maybe a show, maybe the bar... - hopefully all 3!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm still coming into my own when it comes to long term dating but when I'm ready, marriage is definitely in my future...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If your first language is sarcasm and you have a great smile to back it up! Also, social intelligence is the most attractive to me.