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48 M Brooklyn, NY

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  • Ages 37–49
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Mostly anything
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Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
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Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I dwell in Flatbush, Brooklyn -- close to the other Brooklyn neighborhoods of Kensington, Windsor Terrace, Ditmas Park.... More specifically, I live on Beverley Road, between Coney Island Avenue and Ocean Parkway... between the "Cortelyou" Q-train subway stop and the "Church" F-train stop. I am a waiter in a kosher (I am ethnically Jewish but just about totally unreligious, personally) restaurant in Midwood, Brooklyn -- the restaurant is located down around "Avenue J".
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a waiter in a kosher restaurant; outside of work I spend my time appreciating art, reading the NY Times, nonfiction books, esp. history, enjoying lots of music....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The three R's -- reading, (w)riting, etc. Also good at navigating the city, have been here almost twenty years, feel like I know the ropes pretty well (though there's always room for improvement).
The first things people usually notice about me
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An accent that they sometimes peg as Canadian, or New England-derived... I did grow up in (western) Canada.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classical music.
Rock... have seen "live" these rock bands/acts: Clash, Iggy Pop, Elvis Costello, Aimee Mann, Devo, Ramones, Black Flag, Steely Dan, Dead Kennedys, Motorhead, Fountains of Wayne, Juliana Hatfield. But I seem not to go to rock concerts anymore. (I do go to classical-music concerts, though.)
Am a big fan of Randy Newman, John Lennon, old (pre-1980) Springsteen, Lou Reed, Kate Bush.

In literature, I especially like poetry and satire.

Films: all Woody Allen stuff, Animal House, Serpico, Blues Brothers, Taking of Pelham 1-2-3, film noir, documentaries, Italian films of the postwar era... this year have seen "Moonrise Kingdom"; "From Rome With Love", among others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise -- jogging, rowing-machine, cycling
the New York Times -- though it's getting almost too expensive ($2... no wait, $2.50 now) to buy at the news-stand...
*music* -- very glad I recently bought my first iPod. And I borrow a lot of CDs from the Public Library.
books, magazines, pens, notebooks
seltzer water and diet-sodas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
politics and government; the American political scene; art; New York City; psychology...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes in a health-food restaurant on Sixth Avenue in the Village; possibly seeing a movie at "Film Forum" in the West Village. But I often work Friday nights, as I am a waiter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Most people on OK Cupid dodge this question, it seems -- perhaps I'll do the same! But I'll own up to having an interest in religion, though I am a professed agnostic.
You should message me if
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you're one of the good ones -- or an approximation thereof.