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44 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:48pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m not one of those crazy fanatics that dons a rainbow wig and paints my face every weekend but I am a sports fan. I enjoy following the Cubs in the Spring/Summer and the Bears, Bulls and Hawks in Autumn/Winter. I also enjoy my nieces and nephews games (seriously some 11 yr old girls seem to play better ball than the pros!) I get out to their games every chance I get! But I have other interests, too. I enjoy travel, photography, theater, books, music and museums. I consider my family my closest friends, and my friends the family I was lucky enough to choose. They all mean the world to me and I am very loyal to them. What else do you need to know? I’m quick-witted, open-minded and non-judgmental. I love kids and spend as much time with my nieces and nephews that I can. I have a great life and I enjoy it immensely – but I’d like to meet a great guy to round it all out.

I find gorgeous eyes and a contagious smile attractive. But I would like to meet a man who knows how to communicate. He’s honest, funny and intelligent. Not to mention that he has some good old-fashioned common sense. The guy for me is loyal to his family and friends. He’s financially and emotionally stable. He takes care of himself and doesn’t smoke. Just a great guy who knows how to treat a lady and is ready to make a relationship a priority, not an option, in his life.

In the spirit of full disclosure, I have a condition called pulmonary arterial hypertension that requires me to be on oxygen. I assure you it doesn't hold me back at all... I'm very active in Pilates class & I work out regularly. (I even parasailed last year!!) Keep in mind, It's not like the tanks that seniors lug around, but a small purse like container. Most men, when they hear that I am on oxygen, disregard me automatically. Take a chance!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing THREE sides to every story (a side, b side and somewhere in the middle lies the truth)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Outwardly, people notice my height and my hair (I am 5'10 and have really curly hair).
Once people get to know me, they notice that I am a good and honest person. I'm a little sarcastic and a little serious (sometimes at the same time).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmmmm...way too many to list, but if you want to grab a cup of coffee and talk about our faves...I would be up for that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in order of importance...
family & friends
laughter...lots of laughter
glass (or bottle) of really good red wine
dark chocolate
Travel (even if its only a 2 hr road trip...sometimes it's good to get away to get a little perspective)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Retirement and where I would like to retire (because quite honestly, I would like a change of scenery. Mountains or some type of waterfront…hmmm)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am up for anything on a Friday night. I have been known to hang with the nieces and nephews, dinner/drinks with friends, local theater, sporting events (anything from the nieces/nephew games to professional sports), game night, dinner at a friends house, etc etc
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking to have a friend first and gradually make our way to a LTR. Please no games/drama, unless you like backgammon. I recently started playing again, and not on my phone…real old school board!! I gave those up in my 20s