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  • Ages 41-53
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Last online
Today – 8:35am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Versatile,with lots of experience. I lived in Asia for a while, and am well-traveled. I work in marketing communications in the financial industry. I've also worked in academia.

I love to talk about in art, literature, yoga, and spirituality. Current events. Political satire.

Not a veggie, but a healthful diet and exercise are key. I love Thai, Japanese and most Asian food in general. I don't eat chicken.

I have a son who lives mostly with his mother and a daughter in college.
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking enlightenment while being practical.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture. I'm usually on top of current events. I listen to NPR, read the Times. For fun I sometimes listen to right wing talk shows. Once I get to know you, it's easy to have long conversations about a range of topics.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm warm, friendly, and good at conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like modern and contemporary novelists. Some of my recent reads are Richard Ford's Canada, The Beautiful Ruins and The Financial Lives of the Poets by Jess Walter. I also like Jennifer Egan and Mary Gaitskill. Classic novels as well. During Winter, I usually find a big, classic novel, Tolstoy, Flaubert or somebody else and hunker down with it. Films depend on the director. Woody Allen (up to Crimes and Misdemeanors), the Coen brothers, the French New Wave, Kubrick (just about anything), Wim Wenders (Wings of Desire).

I'm incredibly eclectic in music. Jazz, classical and modernist composers. Too many rock artists to mention. The Kinks, the Stones, Beatles, Bowie, Bob Dylan. Some punk, Manchester scene, alternative in general. Earlier R.E.M., Patti Smith, and so many others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides family, friends, and material basics: good novels, almonds, yoga, Whole Foods, Cabernets, and people with a sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of things in general. Politics and ideology. What motivates people to act the way they do. Work and play. Art and life. Other big questions. Little ones, too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either in the city or doing yoga. Seeing friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm left handed.
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