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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 23
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Feel my power. It is great, vast, and (mostly) everlasting. For all those who feel my power, I invite you to say "hello" and experience the glory that is me.
.... It really is an excellent glory...... I encourage all of you who are fairly young, Latina, and of good prospects, to send your greetings my way. :)

My names nick, and at heart I'm just a nerd/ punk, who grew up, got his degree, fell in love with NPR and indie hipster music and can't find his way to the grocery store because he just moved out to California.

I love dickens and hemmingway, but Hesse is my favorite. I love symphony and opera, but magic flute and Mozart are my

I like cats and dogs... But I'm a cat man. I like baseball and football, but I'm a baseball guy. I love sci fi and fantasy.... But I'm a..... No there's no choosing there. That's a sofie's choice there, that is. I'm a scifi/fantasy guy

I JUST moved out here. I'm really looking to meet new and interesting people more than anything else at the moment. I want to get trampled in LA mosh pits and wake up at Denny's at 4:00a.m. Then go surfing. It's an idealized vision of LA, but I'm an idealist. Let's dance:)
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently moved out to California from Cincinnati/kentucky. (It makes perfect sense-trust me on this:) so as of right now I'm settling in and learning the area. Hoping to meet folks who don't bore me.

Settling in to new job in sales. Totally new to me but so far so good:)

P.S. I'm an old school gutter punk for realsies. I've lived in some interesting places and done shit that would scare the crap out of mortal men and women. Anyone reading this who'd like to compare notes in this regard.....please drop a line. We'd probably get along:)
I’m really good at
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Music. Playing and singing. I have a band called nick and the excitement. There are videos on YouTube if you search "nick and the excitement". But if you DO watch them... i warn you, i used to be a bearded fat man. I got better, though:)

J.s. Mill said that when two sides come into conflict, each has a bit of the truth. One may have more, and the other less, but the conflict of their ideas will lead to a greater understanding of the truth by both.... But only if you listen. I listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm funny. This is not to brag but.... I'm decent looking-not a hottie. I'm smart but no genius. Im a good musician and a really good singer but no prodigy. But I am clever and sharp witted enough to leave you rolling on the floor when something strikes me absurd and most things do:)

***like for example...absurdity #1. The number of women on here who look like they got a BMW for their super sweet sixteen and claim to be nerds. Dude.... Unless you were on the academic team from 4th grade on up, fat, and got regularly beat are NOT a nerd. We live in a caste system and you're in a different caste. Nothing to be ashamed of....but you're not a nerd:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bands:They Might Be Giants, B-52's, NOFX, Fugazi, Dance Hall Crashers, Rancid, Less Than Jake, Dresden Dolls, Talking Heads, Bouncing Souls, Crass, Propaghandi, Dead Milkmen, Arcade Fire, The Ditty Bops, Electric Six, Madness, Modest Mouse, Devo (punkest band EVER!), Frontbottoms, Awolnation, Mates Of State, Depeche Mode, Atom and his Package, Machine Go Boom, Mozart, Chopin, Beethoven, Vivaldi etc. not gonna list all the super-weird stuff I listen to. Kind of a waste of time. But if you care, my music references are available upon request.

Books- siddhartha, great expectations, sun also rises, lord of the rings, dune, ender's game, various political philosophy books ESP js mills "on liberty". Harry potter, anything by Stephen king, I LOVE childrens lit.... Nancy drew, lowis lowery Louis sachar, trixie Belden, phantom tollbooth, dark is rising, god there are so many on this list... Ask me. I've read it.

Movies: again.. Oh my god.. Wait till you see the vault...(wait-you never will cause it's in kentucky) I love horror sci fi and fantasy- including anime and childrens.....all of them really. Honestly there's something to love about any movie in the afore mentioned genres. So ask me.. I HAVE seen it and proly own it. Dramas.... There will be blood/ magnolia/Donnie darko/anything Kubrick/cohen broths/Gallipoli/ Lawrence of Arabia/ghandi/.... Comedy- super troopers!!! Big trouble in little china ( proly greatest movie ever made- it's action, scifi, fantasy, horror, comedy all in one... And I learned the best dramas have EVRYTHING in them... Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy-BBC (not holywood version!) Monty python, big

TV: PBS junkie yo! Anything on there....

Stewart and Colbert.....(ill miss ya when ya go Steven......)
Breaking bad...portlandia...american horror story, Girls, i'm into old school dr who... But I'm learning to looove the new shit:) orange is new black, broad city, key and peele, Sherlock- that new bbc shit.... Yeah.. That shit is the shit.... Check out that vocab .... I got it... Yeah!!!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 Half Price Books (but I guess I'm gonna have to learn to cope cause Cali doesn't have that store yet...really people?)
2. NPR
3. iPhone-(provides me with every npr show or radio station or radio drama in the world and Im an audiophile.. It also does almost anything else in the world. It's the digital Swiss army knife. I know it's cliche' but it really is the greatest tool I've ever owned.) collection of rare/vintage books, movies, albums, toys, posters, (which I left back east:(
5. my cat (also back east)
6. My guitar- it's again cliche' I know... But my Martin 6-string is the best musical instrument I've ever owned and I got it from my college roommate for $100. He did not know what he had:)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How communication seems to be so difficult for people. Anger, I believe, is the most harmful and damaging of all human traits. Anger clouds judgement and reason. Anger makes people act without considering consequences. Anger makes people stupid.

David lynch (twin peaks still blows my mind)

I just sold my car to move out here. I'll get another one eventually. But right now I'm learning all about the oc transit authority. First time I've been an active walker/ bus rider since I was 16:) fun times!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Make me an offer I can't refuse:) seriously though.... I need some friends people. Lets go to seal beach or something. I wanna surf!! Need, need, need...... To get to the roxy, the observatory, and anywhere else there's punk playing with drunken revelry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I rock! you don't have to.

Madly in love with avril lavigne....not sure why:)

Anyone on here who doesn't want to talk/date me because they think our signs aren't compatible.... Seriously dude? I don't even want to know you.

In a related story... Anyone on here who thinks they'd only get along with someone who's match % is above 80%..... Seriously? We're all different. With differing opinions and ideas. It's what makes meeting new people so interesting. Do I wanna date a right-wing evangelical republican? Proly not.... But I won't rule it out and I could give a flying fuck whether you think "nuclear war would be exciting in a certain light" or not.
You should message me if
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You're open minded and curious.
You're non-judgmental.
You're someone who can make me laugh.
Funny chicks are the bee's knees.

You can knit a dr. Who scarf circa Tom baker 1970s.

I like educated women.... But I prefer SMART women. They do NOT always go together.

I'm good on any long distance pen pals.....Unless you're Kimya Dawson, Adam green, John or John from they might be giants, or Jesus Hubert Christ. (I've got some stuff we need to correspond about j.c.)

I don't give 2 ass-raping-donkey-shits about how you look. (I mean.. I do) but the women who really turn me on, almost NEVER turn out to be the ones I really like. And I'd prefer to meet someone I really like to someone who turns me on. Physical attraction can grow or diminish with time. If I ever DO meet someone who really turns me on immediately- and is smart, interesting, funny, a good listener and a good friend.... Well... Let's just say that would be pretty fucking sweet.

Thanks so much!!