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30 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:30pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Looking for love and/or friendship, where the boundary between the two is not always clear.

If you happen to be a fan of Evelyn Waugh's 'Brideshead Revisited', you'll understand perfectly. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an aspiring historian and a Ph.D. candidate at the University of Toronto, working on the legal and religious history of Late Antiquity through the central Middle Ages. Periodically I TA undergrad history courses at U of T, and tutor high-school English in Richmond Hill.

As a part of general life-improvement, I've just taken up running / jogging, and am always looking for a buddy to go with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
constructing historical arguments on the basis of little-to-no evidence. (See above.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: too many to choose. Tell me your favorite, and we'll chat.
Movies: Darren Aronofsky, 'The Fountain'
Shows: Amy Poehler, 'Parks and Recreation'
Music: Tchaikovsky, Piano Concerto No 1
Food: whatever we are cooking, provided we're cooking together.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1). intimate and honest friendship
2). students
3). books
4). cheap wine
5). financially imprudent trips to Europe
6). beautiful boys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the nature of education.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
prepping for my tutoring job Saturday morning. In an ideal world I would be at the pub, with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The first person with whom I ever fell in love was a girl, when she and I were in the first grade.
You should message me if
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you want something a little different.

You should definitely get in touch with me if you are a) attracted to academics and the academic life-style, b) looking for a long-term relationship, and c) sympathetic to religion. But you may message me for any reason at all!