Let's go get coffee or a drink! I love intelligent conversation and chemistry/flirting. I'm polyamorous.
I'd love to meet someone I could go to dinner or drinks with a few times a month (or more!?), or the DIA, or have a cable-drama couch marathon, whatever. If friendship and flirting leads to a relationship: great! But no pressure/rush. I value friendship, honesty, trust, intelligence, conversation. I like nerdy guys, and all kinds.
I am NOT looking for casual/anonymous/NSA sex. Don't bother messaging me only "hey, hows it going," don't ask me if I'm "looking for some fun," or anything disrespectful. Don't message me looking for sex. If you aren't interested in meeting in real life, OR IF YOU AREN'T GOING TO SHOW UP FOR A DATE, GET LOST (FUCK OFF).
I'm adventurous. I can be a little single-minded when I have a goal in sight. I love to be exposed to new ideas, travel, read, go on road trips. My absolute FAVORITE things are hot springs, bathhouses, spas, cleansing ceremonies, sauna, steam room, sweat lodge... anything involving water, and emotional/physical healing. I also like camping, yoga, hiking, kayaking/canoeing, going up north Michigan, lazing about, cooking (and eating). Lately, studying and reading about Buddhism, but I'm an atheist.
I hate loud, dirty, crowded clubs and bars -- but I love cocktails/wine/beer and great food at a place where we can actually talk.
I am ardent, analytical, and multi-faceted.