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My self-summary Propose an edit

Not a whole lot to say. I live in Vancouver and am amazed at how hard it can be to meet people when there are so many of them around.

I'm a very energetic person a lot of the time and sometimes the energy will be more obvious in the way I speak, often jumping from topic to topic in a way that doesn't completely make sense until you know me a little, but it seems to captivate certain people. It makes me happy, and so I don't see it changing.

Beyond that, I'm your standard geek. I like stupid in jokes and bizarre humour as well as exploring new things and generally goofing off. I don't take life too seriously and at this point, I'm pretty much just along for the ride.

I suppose it could be a good idea to write a little about what I'm looking for, couldn't it. Well, I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful guy, but we aren't monogamous. I don't know if you'd call us exactly poly either because to be honest, we're not looking for a permanent addition or a new boyfriend or girlfriend, at least not at the moment. I'm here looking for friends with the possibility of benefits, if I can put it so crassly. We've done a little (and I do unfortunately mean very little) in the realm of three-way play and that was some of the most fun we've had and we would very much like to repeat the experience. At the moment we're looking for women because, well, we just are. He's not at all into guys and I haven't been with a woman in a while and I miss it. There's a certain something that's different. I can't quite explain it, but I know it's there. I mean, obviously there are the physical differences (lol boobs :P) but there's something beyond that, and so it's woman hunting we go ^_^ Anyway, I'm rambling.

The message to take from this, I guess, would be that if you're a guy looking for sex, you should probably look elsewhere. I've been told this is unfair. It might be, but I have faith that you'll get over it. I never said we couldn't be friends ^_^ If you're a girl looking for sex, you might find it if we click, either just with me or with my wonderful boyfriend as well. If you're just looking for friends, that's cool too because I like friends.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I'm doing the 20-something thing which appears to consist of having great times with some great people but also working at a job I hate. Oh, fast food, how you corrode my soul (and my shoes) with your grease. I'm also pretending that I'm working on a novel for NaNoWriMo or, for those not in the know, the National Novel Writing Month. Trying to write 50,000 words in one month pretty much just for the sake of doing it. I've been informed that it's not the best way to go about writing a novel and I would have to agree, but I'm having fun. I'm writing the autobiography of an imaginary friend, an idea that I'm very proud of. Other than that, I'm attempting to learn my place in the world, both metaphorically and literally (I'm terrible with maps and learning my way around. Moving the the city has been an adventure in that regard). I like my world for the most part, and I think that's pretty sweet.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Music is probably my first passion. I'll learn to play any instrument I can get ahold of. I've been playing the flute for the since I was 11, so it's obviously my main focus, but I'll try anything twice.

I've also been told I'm witty and I like to think I'm a very positive and upbeat person.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Physically it's probably my height - I didn't think 5'10" was that tall, but I guess it is for a girl. Then my boobs because hey, boobs are rad. The first thing people might notice in a conversation could be that I talk really fast a lot of the time and that I tend to like to be the one to find a joke in most situations. I try not to be annoying about it, but sometimes I wonder.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: Good Omens, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Ender's Game, Brave New World, American Gods and anything else Neil Gaiman has ever written.

Movies: Garden State, Saved!, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, I Heart Huckabees, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Finding Nemo, Monty Python (Life of Brian being my favourite), and a bunch of other random movies I can't think of just now. I know there are way more comedies in my repertoire of good movies, but they just aren't coming to mind.

Music: The Barenaked Ladies, The New Pornographers, Matchbox 20,The Beatles, Nirvana, Bad Religion, System of a Down, Cake, Weezer, various other awesome people

Foods: I really love pasta. Also, you can never go wrong with good Indian food.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1)My friends
2)Music in general, my flute specifically
3)The occasional night of crazy antics
4)Some sort of music listening device
5)A certain amount of ridiculousness
6)Food/water/air. Had to have at least one item taken up by actual essentials.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

anything and everything. I can spend hours just going over song lyrics. Other times I'll spend days on end thinking about random philosophy stuff, mostly things I make up cause I don't know anyone else's, really. Sometimes it's more mundane things, but my mind is always going. I just can't always say about what.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Out partying if I can be. Also wandering, a wonderful time spent just walking around talking about all the things I or the other person thinks about. Working is the unfortunate answer a lot of the time.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I never know how to answer these things. I prefer specific questions. How about this - you ask something, and I'll decide if I should tell you? I probably will tell you though, I don't keep many secrets about myself.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you feel like it. I'd love to hear from anyone. I feel I can express myself so much better in a conversation than these one sided generic questions.

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NiftyBananas: 1027 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn't matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$0-$20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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