First let me describe myself, I am an open-minded individual, not too open that my brains don't fall out, I am intelligent, educated. I work as a computer programmer. I write software for a variety of companies, so I spend most of my day thinking in natural looping circles, because most of the software people want is something that continually tests something new.

I am a Retired U.S. Marine Veteran from the Vietnam Era, I enjoy life, and in my 53 years of life, I have been to England, Ireland, Germany, Japan and Italy, Mexico, Most all of the Caribbean Islands, lived in Bermuda for three years, and I have had a great time visiting all of these countries and meeting all the people there. And I plan to continue to travel and hopefully with a good travel companion.

I Wanna Be your Lover........♫♪♫♪♫♪♫

I like all things in life, the simple pleasures make me happy. I have raised my 4 daughters and they all now live on their own with their families, right now at this stage in my life I just want to find a good woman to share good times with and enjoy life's journey.

I'm in the mood for a relationship I don't have to define, but it still feels good.

I get along best with people who are not afraid to call a spade a spade.

I work and come home and do the typical Single guy things - laundry the single guy way if it fits into one washer, go for it, so if you don't like tie dyed underwear, do your own laundry.

I like to shoot pool or darts. I like Ice House or Sam Adams in the bottle, oysters and sushi. I have tattoos and want one more. I am looking for someone who is honest and sincere. I have a "wicked sense of humor" and hopefully so do you.

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• Cinderella1248

I am on a never-ending quest to find an interesting lady. one that is honest with herself, who is not looking for the impossible, but the probable one who is comfortable in herself, who is not looking for that elusive Prince charming on horseback.

Learning How To Bend.........♫♪♫♪♫♪♫ .

At times, I am a bit of an enigma to people, because I don't think as they do in some cases. I am very open and my levels of conversation with people, and I look for openness in my partner. I am always open to trying new things in life.

The first thing people notice about me when they first meet me, is that I am rugged looking, my eyes are the window to my soul, I'm a loving and caring individual, and at the same time. I won't accept being a failure is part of life.

Astrology, Business, Collecting, Computers, Internet Stuff, Dining out, Gadgets, techie stuff, Massage, Meditating, yoga, My job, News, current events, Photography, Pop culture, Science, Stock market, Traveling, Wine Tasting, gourmet foods, outdoors

Here is the Link to PlayList.com, were I get My music I listen too♫♪♫♪♫♪♫ .

Here is some of the Music I like, this will open a Standalone player so you can listen to it as you Surf ♪♫♪♫.

family, friends, music, movies, books, good food & wine

ENTP - The Inventor

Your Type is 60% Extroverted, 38% Observant, 69% Logical and 38% Structured

The single word that describes your type is "inventor", and you belong to the larger group called rationals. You love to tinker with things and come up with new ideas. You are outgoing and curious with an insatiable appetite for knowledge. You have no real desire to lead, only doing so if there is no other way.

2% of the population share your personality type.

You are a flirtatious and energetic romantic partner, fun and engaging, always looking for something unusual to try. In your enthusiasm, you may make promises you can't keep. Your competitive nature and need to be perceived as an expert can be daunting to a romantic partner at times. You so enjoy the tug of a good debate that sometimes you act as if you don't take anything seriously. You are usually very supportive and helpful to your mate, but somewhat scattered and unable to devote your full attention there. You feel most appreciated for your great ideas, unusually perceptiveness, and ability to understand and communicate with people. You feel most appreciated when your partner understands your need for lots of social contact and your need to live life as spontaneously as possible.

Whenever all hope seems lost, it will reappear to prove that you have really lost nothing, except perhaps your sight of the path to enlightenment. And in the absence of that sight, the Star will light your way. Its light is not a blinding flash like the lightning bolt of the Tower, but a soft radiating glow that warms and comforts, rather than burning and destroying. You must remember that both of these energies ultimately come from the same place in the sky - from Heaven. After the light of the Tower destroys the false path you were following, the kinder and gentler light of the Star will lead you back to the right path.

In terms of symbolism this card is similar to Temperance; there is a figure by a pool with two cups. But while the contents of the Cups were mixed with each other in Temperance, here they are mixed with the waters of the eternal spirit of the Divine. When you cannot help yourself, the Star tells you to look to the heavens for guidance. Or, more appropriately, look to the spark of divinity that lies within yourself that you could not see or acknowledge before. Each of us has a little piece of the Star deep inside, waiting to cast its light into the world to light the way. This is what Crowley meant when he affirmed that "every man and every woman is a star."

The Star is a card of faith, both in your own power, and in powers greater than your own. When the Tower sweeps away all the negativity in your life, you once again need something to fill the void, and faith is a good place to start. What exactly is faith? It could be said that faith is a conscious belief in an unconscious experience, of which we may not be directly aware, but of which we can still feel the effects. This definition fits both belief in a deity and belief in your own abilities. Having faith in any power will allow that power to manifest in your life. Beleiving that something will happen is as sure a way as any to make it happen.

There is a lot of meditative imagery on almost all renditions of the Star, though the most interesting symbol on the Rider-Waite version of the card is the pool of water at the center of the scene. On some decks the naked woman is standing in the pool, but in the Rider-Waite version she kneels beside it. Notice that her right foot rests on the water but does not break the surface. Once faith is placed in its power, the pool of the subconscious becomes able to support the conscious mind. The miraculous ability to walk on water is symbolically translated here into the ability to trust in another power, whether in the heavens or in yourself. Once that trust is achieved, anything is possible.

There are few cards more positive than the Star, because when it appears in your life it is nothing less than a beacon of hope and inspiration. In times of darkness it shows that there is a way out, and tells you not to worry, for illumination and freedom are at hand. All you need is something in which to place your faith. So trust in yourself, and in whatever powers you believe control the universe, to help you through difficult times. Let the infinite energy of the Star warm you and rejuvenate your soul, to provide the strength and the clarity of purpose you need to continue on your journey.

It is important to keep in mind, however, that the Star is never a card that shows the final solution to any problem. It simply shows the hope and faith to get to wherever you're going; without hope we can accomplish nothing, but hope is only a beginning. Now that you have been inspired, you still have much work to do in order to bring your vision into manifestation. You must combine the solidity of material existence with the waters of your emotions and of your spirit. This is a time when miracles can happen, so kick off your shoes and wade into the pool, confident that the water will support you until you reach the other side.

Trying to find some new adventure to get into... and decompressing from the week of work...

Smoke Rings in the Dark, Great Song.....

What do you think I am gonna tell you about my most private things so it will end up on the Jerry Springer show or make the 8:00 news give me a break here.....

If you think it would be worth your time........

Ladies Please read my profile before contacting me, And I will read yours.

I do smoke and If you can't be around somebody who does, you have a great time searching for your mate.

Thank You ☺

Jim