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NightNïn

43 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm really good at taking the backseat, if you need it. Pulling you into the backseat, and driving super fast...god forbid, you should need it!
In other words: I know when to be soft, give you a place to land, hand you a wrench, fix you a martini and I know when to make you miss me, how to inspire you, let you feel free, be fiercely independent, get into the ring with you and stand up for what I'm passionate about.

Lived on the East coast my whole life, some of it South most of it North. First generation born, with enough of a European slant that I insist on spelling things with the "u": rumour, humour, behaviour...buzz off spell check.

The two places I almost didn't come back home from were, Iceland and Hydra. They live in my dreams.

I'm here to find a man I can adore, respect, desire, laugh and build a life with. If you are this man, stop reading at once and reveal yourself to me! My appreciation will be endless.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing chess.

Building things. Design. Growing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing the difference between a phillips and a flat
Surprising you
Reading topography maps
Being present…so should you
Speaking the language of men…yes, I really do understand you. My dad taught me.
Road trips sans destinations
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ummm, they're blue and I'm bagging my own groceries.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Bukowski
Tarkovsky
Vonnegut
Andy Goldsworthy
Celebration
Ai Weiwei
The Moth
Sexy Beast
Arvo Pärt
James Turrell
Incendies
Baby Doll
Phantogram
Stalker
Beasts of the Southern Wild
The National
The Stranglers
Radiolab/Radiohead
Breaking the Waves
Atom Egoyan
Dog Day Afternoon
Julius Shulman
Withnail and I
Sigur Ros
Saxondale
Elbow
The Weeknd
DeadMau5
Wait Wait Don't Tell Me
Bon Iver
Kara Walker
The Antlers
Williams
Mighty Boosh
Neutra
O' Connor
BANKS
Louis
GBV

Food is it's own category, though I feel as passionately about it as I do all other art forms. I'm an epicurious omnivore, who knows my way around the kitchen. I eat for a healthy life but sometimes you just have to have ribs. And you should really taste my ribs!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, air, art, people, desire, art, food, light and did I mention art?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tectonic plates.

Creating a safe haven for us to be inspired from.

When is my next trip to the desert?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relieved
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read everyone's profile from the bottom to the top.
There's pretty fun story starring Pete Townsend...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You wanna get analogue.

You want to run away to the desert and get lost for days.

I know it's tough for you guys to always have to be the icebreaker. If I message you, I've read your profile and something resonated with me. I look forward to talking with you.