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54 Tacoma, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:16pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Hello ladies,

I am an independent filmmaker. My production business is what I am pursuing to follow my bliss.

I hope you don’t mind a man who can get bit goofy at times.. I am funny like a comedian and sure to make you laugh as long as you don’t take yourself too seriously. I strongly believe in freedom of self, religion and sexuality. The longer I live, the less offended and judgmental I become. Live and let live and agree to differ is how I live my life. I am spiritual and not religious.

Understand that I am in a relationship but available (open relationship).

While I am not seeking marriage, I am seeking life partner(s). And I prefer a woman who has an open mind about having an open relationship. That being said, if you have difficulty with the concept of sharing, please don’t automatically assume that it’s about you sharing me with other women, and that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander and prefer someone open to this relationship model.

If you are a woman who is truly open to exploring your sexuality, then you may already understand the advantages of an open relationship; jealousy is not an issue for me. I am merely a very romantically, erotically minded man who wants his woman’s sexuality to match his own. And still, there are some ways in which I am a typical man.

The thing about poly relationships is that they are just as committed as monogamous relationships. And if all the real good men are taken, then why not share one? If you can consider a committed relationship with a time shared boyfriend, then you can be poly.

I know the difference between a purely physical attraction and attraction to the person inside. I am therefore restricting my search for those with whom I can share a connection. But I will be friends with pretty much everybody else.

Additionally, I am seeking those with mad skills and other talents or disciplines. This one’s a writer. That one’s an attorney. This one is a damn fine cook. That one is a doctor or a healer. You get the idea.

I intend to produce an epic sci-fi motion picture using friends, family and acquaintances. And you may become friends, family or acquaintances. So I am especially seeking those with skills that can be used for filmmaking. The film will require many actresses, so if you’ve ever felt the urge to flex your acting muscles, this would be a good way to do it.

Personally, I believe that my purpose in life is to help others find their true selves and help restore mankind’s humanity.

Just so you know I am eccentric and eclectic. And unlike most folks who have to have it one way or the other, or insist on defining things a certain way, I prefer to allow things to be defined as they will.

Honestly, I think the extraterrestrials are out there waiting for us to get our act together. Because I don’t think we are ready to meet them yet.

Every now and again I refer back to the book: “How To Be A Gentleman”. Most men these days don’t know anything about chivalry or how to treat a woman with respect and other men with honor without compromising their own “manliness”.

I think it’s an art worth practicing, so I often re-read certain chapters to keep these practices fresh in my mind and my actions.

I’m seeking vibrant, dynamic women who appreciate a man who would have her to practice on.
What I’m doing with my life
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Filmmmaking, filmmaking, filmmaking, and all the arts that contribute to filmmaking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh man! I apply excellence and quality to a plethora (and then some) of the artistic things that contribute to filmmaking.

I'm also a pretty damn good chef!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've had more than a few people say I look like Steven Seagal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well, I might as well start writing my memoirs right the frak now!

Food - I will say that I know how to cook all of the things I enjoy the most.

Music - all the things at the bottom of my list are, opera, RAP, C&W, and any music that is being produced simply to make money (and therefore glutting the market with too much of it). I like pretty much everything else.

Movies - well, ha ha, I do like a good sci-fi novel in movie or TV format. So anything that has that hint of "classic literature" about it. I consider Star Wars to be classic.

Books - pretty much the same as above.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to write with.

Something to write on.

People to share experiences with.

The ecstasy lovers experience when they finally reach the innermost core of their beings.



A sense of humor (ok, that makes 7. But I felt it was too important to leave out).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world. The best way to reduce your carbon footprint (ask me how). Permaculture anyone? Anyone?

How many of the people on this planet are so crazy, even having enough nukes to destroy ourselves many times over, they still think war for Imperialistic gain is a good idea.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is SciFi night. Snuggled up on the couch with my geeky girlfriend watching Battlestar Galactica, or something of equal or greater quality.

Have you ever seen Babylon 5?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm 2% bisexual and 2% scoundrel.
You should message me if
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Message me if you are any kind of artist, or are interested in filmmaking or acting.