Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
* I am currently in a very happy relationship. I am not looking for
anyone else. I do not log onto to here and if that is IF I respond
to any messages there may and will be delays in responses. Good
luck to u all in what u r looking for here. I found my love here
and he has turned out to be quite the surprise in the love and
attention he shares not only with me but my son and entire family.
So friends only need respond thanks!**
there seems to be issues with my profile detering some of you
fellas...so in future here's simple list. You'll have to message
and get to know me for me instead of some long drawn out profile
where I am stating what I "hope" to find. But for now here's a few
things to go by.
1. Must be okay with that I am a smoker.
2. I am a single mother.
3. I sometimes work 6 days a week and I'm usually pretty tired when
I get off work.
4. My son is getting into sports so unless you are willing to
potentially spend time with me sitting on the sidelines at his
games or practices eventually and consider that as time spent
together then probably need to keep looking due to any spare energy
right now is essentially being given to that.
5. I'm big on some form of physical contact, sitting close together
or holding hands. Cuddling on the sofa at times just to veg out
with the tv.
6. I read for enjoyment rarely for any other reason at this
7. If you are overweight please consider this... nothing against
you teddy bears out there. Yall are great for the people you are
but I'm not interested. I'm a very short and small female. I'm not
a twig though and never will be again. That was in my teen
8. I appreciate a good smile, and good eye contact. Please no
discolored, gapped or seriously crooked teeth.
9. I have a wide range of interests and that changes at a whim...I
like discovering new things so just because we may not have any
current interests shared who's to say I wouldn't like something you
are in to? I have found many new interests that way.
10. If you are contacting me with the sole intention of a one night
stand or hook up or just someone to have a short term fling
with..please keep going.
11. Guys if you are looking for a relationship, please make sure
that you truely are, before starting something only to back out
over a simple or small thing. we are not perfect, I sure as hell
don't claim to be. And I don't expect that you will be perfect
either but I expect us to find out those little things about each
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working on some things in my life to eventually make
things better for my son and myself. Babysteps are sometimes needed
before the leaps and bounds can be attempted.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being me :P lol, I'm a very affectionate person, with that being
said that goes into being a care giver, a worrier, "mom", and
significant other...funny to say that since I'm here right? well
guess they dont know what they had, huh? :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short! lol, 4'11". Second would probably be my Big brown eyes.
I'm often told I can be read like a book. My
emotions/thoughts/feelings can easily be read I'm told through my
face/eyes/body language. *shrugs*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: hmm, well let me be the typical girl for a moment, Twilight
series was a good read, The Beauty Series by Anne Rice's alias, The
Kushiel's series (cant remember author atm), and yes I just started
the Fifty Shades of Grey series.. *sighs and shakes head* Guys I
suggest you read it..at least the 1st book take a couple pointers
even if it means you have to hide it from the other "guys" to do
so. *shrugs* just a suggestion...
Movies: girlie girl...faves. Of course, Dirty Dancing (lol)
Notebook, The American Pie Movies, 13 Ghosts, anything by Disney
Pixar, Avengers, and Transformers!
Shows: CSI, Criminal Minds, Ghost Whisperer, NCIS, True Blood, Law
& Order, Dirty Jobs, HGTV, pretty much anything on TNT and USA,
tend to end up watching History channel and Discovery channel,
interesting stuff there and my son loves it so it's a must.
Music: I enjoy almost anything depending on the mood I'm in. Not
much into Rap, R&B, or Heavy Metal, though I do listen to or
enjoy specific artists/songs.
Food: Mexican, Chinese, a good steak or grilled Salmon, and at this
point in time I can NOT do with out Spicoli's Teriyaki Wings!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
take in account this is if we were stranded on an island no
electricity and no other civilization..so to speak so basics are a
must of course like water and food but aside from that, the 6 below
i couldn't do without.
1. my son
2. my family/friends
4. hair tie
5. love and all that entails...
6. a furry cuddle buddy i.e. dog/cat etc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a Lot of time thinking about...what's next in life...what's
in store for me as well as my son. (I worry enough and all the time
if I'm the best mom I can be for him and if he's happy).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
recently, on a typical Friday night, I can be found home, probably
reading or watching one of my shows till I fall asleep around
10-11pm due to having to work the next morning. But on a typical
Saturday night?! That's my leave all cares behind night, get
together with the friends, have a few drinks, shoot some pool, go
to a movie..etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not sure I'm willing to admit to any of my "most" private
things...thats something to be shared with the right person I'm
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you are serious about getting to know me,
with the potential of a long term relationship, prepared to be a
role model and example for my son, open to the idea of kids in the
future, loving, caring, and open minded person. You must also like
to lead 85% of the time and share in your experiences that I may
not have experienced yet in my life. Also if you are looking for
strictly platonic friendship of the opposite sex, I'm always
looking for big brother types to hang out with and have someone to
speak to that isn't of the same gender. (too many females in life
which is one reason I prefer male friends outside my daily dose of
female estrogen *rolls eyes*) Message if you are stable and
seriously ready to be settling down with the Saturday Nights being
the "out" nights. I would get more specific on a few other things,
but I dont want to knock any actual good guys from attempting or
potentially being the right one. So dont be scared...make the first
move. I like to see what kind of "moves" a guy actually has, grab
my attention...show me what ya got. :)
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