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Nikkita79

53 Madison, AL Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:59pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here’s the deal - my life is awesome; I love my job, I have a great family & lots of friends. All the boxes are checked except for you. What I'm missing is the guy who makes everything even cooler.

I'm looking for that soulful, sexy, intelligent man who knows who he is, has a kind heart and wants to explore everything but is just missing his girl.

Not so tall an order, right?

The comfort of a warm summer’s evening, the crisp touch of the first fall freeze and the freedom to head for the hills --or a vineyard-- at a moment's notice is what I crave.

The perfect day includes interesting conversation, good music, great friends, sparklers in the summer, a bonfire in the fall and a complete disregard for time.

What lights me up: truth, passion, fearlessness, humility, fresh air & sunshine, freedom, strength and kindness.

I'd be especially happy if you...

...grab me by the hand and take me swimming in the middle of the night

... can have a philosophical conversation and still easily fall apart laughing

... look for the good in life

Yep, and with all that, I will rock your world and always stand by you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-walking and running in high heels & melting people’s suspicions with a smile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-my civilized demeanor doesn't quite fit my less than innocent eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sherlock, Game of Thrones, Whitman, NewGrass, The Handsome Family, Top Gun, Diana Krall, A River Runs Through It, Classical, The Kite Runner, The Goodnight, Chris Thile, Jack London, Jazz, Jane Austen, The Doors, Yo Yo Ma, Anton Checkov, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's see...

1. The gurgling sound that comes from my coffee maker first thing in the morning

2. Soft & supple bed linens

3. A decent pair of hiking shoes

4. Vanilla scented candles

5. My pink lip gloss

6. A road atlas / GPS / my compass
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-relaxing.

After taking off the suit, and enjoying a hot shower, I throw on a sweater and jeans and head over to my favorite hole-in-the-wall. My friends and I unwind here after a crazy week. Before long though, I’m ready for some California rolls at my favorite sushi place… the more wasabi the better.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-don't judge. I read Cosmo and People Magazine while riding the bike at the gym.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-If you're not the usual male & you just can't help yourself.