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38 / M / gay / Single

Memphis, Tennessee

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Ethnicity
Black, Native American
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am synergistic, engaging, and community-oriented.

My Self-Summary

Here's an update for you all! I just moved to Memphis. It's interesting being a resident outside of NC for the first time in my adult life. There are some adjustments to be made, but I'm going to be the better person for it. I love the place that I work and the work that we do. It's truly amazing and makes a difference in this world.

I'm a cool guy -- a bit goofy, intelligent, talented, humble and down to earth, but fun.

I can fall in lust, but love is something you have to work for.

Easy-going Aquarian. Doing things to improve my life. Not into games. I'm way into Tennis, singing, comics, dance, television, reading, yoga, adult, blogging, theatre.

I`m definitely crazy, but fun-loving, caring and a good conversationalist. I have an infectious laugh and will do my damndest to make you smile. I enjoy my space, but am not aloof, we`re all individuals who have to grow on our own, but must live with each other.
Now in French
Facile à vivre Verseau. Faire des choses pour améliorer ma vie. Pas dans des jeux. J'aimes beaucoup tennis, chantant, bandes dessinées, danse, télévision, lecture, yoga, adulte, blogging, théâtre.

What I’m doing with my life

I travel to NYC a lot...so much so that most of my friends ask me for my city street address. Such is the life of a vagabond explorer! I shall live within your sugar walls one day my sweet. I work in healthcare marketing.

I am also a performer (singer/director/actor).

Sometimes, though, I think I'm just living.

I’m really good at

Editing other people's words (not my own).
Making people laugh.
Giving someone a shoulder to cry on or a buddy to kiki with or listening to their problems and joys.
Singing
Directing
Finding out stuff on the web.
Exploring pop culture.
Knowing random facts.
Remembering people's names and things they wished they had forgotten.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile.
My hair.
My size.
My flair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) Authors -- sedaris, l'engle, hiassen, hooks, rowling: The Harry Potter Series, Chronicles of Narnia, Wrinkle in Time, The Da Vinci Code and others.

B) Movies: Grease II, Six Pack, Jumpin' Jack Flash, Cowboys & Angels, KM. 0, X-titles, The Best in Show, the Potters again, Eating Out, Exposed: The Making of a Legend, Guys and Balls, April's Shower, Dorian Blues; Sex, Cocktails & Politics

C) a cappella: Duwende, Ball in the House, Sweet Honey in the Rock, The Dartmouth Aires; vocal jazz: Manhattan Transfer; Broadway cast recordings and Cabaret performers: Natalie Douglas, Lilias White, Barbra Streisand, Linda Eder, Sam Harris, Hair, City of Angels, Rent. Pop/Rock/Dance/R&B.

D) Food -- chinese, vanilla, thai, peanut butter, indian, coffee drinks, vodka

The six things I could never do without

computer
vanilla/peanut butter
vodka
brian (that's intellgence and memories)
money
friends

okay and my two cats Apollo & Diana

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life, love and worries.

On a typical Friday night I am

travelling, talking with friends, going to a show, cleaning, watching WHAT NOT TO WEAR or rehearsing for a gig.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

People think I lie about my age.

You should message me if

you don't have hang-ups about race, or size. I go to the gym when I can. I have an activist soul, so I may talk about issues facing gays and lesbians, Southerns, African Americans and the educated.