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NiteOwlNihilist

24 M Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Feb 13
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Here is the canned and comodified me: I'm a down to earth intellectual guy with a love for philosophy and goddamn science. I'm super nerdy and I love comics, role playing games, video games, and all that sort of fair. On the one hand, I thrive on intellectual discourse and learning, but I also love to drink rum like water and I'm an unrepentant cannabis enthusiast.

Let me qualify this by saying that I think that these sorts of profiles are horrible indications of what a person is actually like. I realize this is cliche, but its worth saying. I've gone through a ton of the match questions and given a fair amount of explanation - that should help paint a slightly more accurate picture.

I am in a serious polyamorous relationship with a wonderful woman, but I'm very open to getting to know someone new right now :)
What I’m doing with my life
I''m not super sure where I'm going with my life, but right now I'm going to junior college and I plan to transfer to UCSC asap (or any other real university that will take me). I'm going to be majoring in philosophy and then doing my grad work in biology.

Apart from my vague college plans, I'm just trying to enjoy every day that my heart still beats. I make a big deal out of self improvement, too. I feel like if I'm not loving life and growing into a better version of myself then I'm doing something wrong.
I’m really good at
I'm good at problem solving on the fly and keeping a cool head under stressful circumstances. I love to observe, analyze, and mentally dissect things. I read body language well and I'm a good listener. Most of the time anyway, haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically: I'm tall, thin, wear all black and I have an unusual and gravely voice. I've had several people accuse me of smelling nice and I'm not inclined to disagree with them.

Personality: I am honest and straightforward to a fault. I've been told I sometimes come on too strong because of that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like a lot of fantasy and sci-fi books, but hand me a good non-fiction with some goddamn hard science and I'm in a happy place. Neil Gaiman is definitely my go-to author when I'm looking for something I know I'll like. Honestly I should read more than I do, but I don't love it any less ;_;

I LOVE movies and have pretty diverse tastes, but I really love cyberpunk and anything on the darker side. I also have a taste for older black and white films and artsy stuff. A few of my favorite movies: Blade Runner, The Matrix, Metropolis, Seven Samurai, True Grit (prefer the Cohen brothers version), Cabin in the Woods, Donnie Darko, A Scanner Darkly...

Like my movie preferences, my musically tastes are also very diverse, but I mostly find myself listening to some kind of electronica, but definitely not just dubstep. Not that I don't lik- WUBWUBWUBWUBWUBWUB... Other than that, I listen to all different species of rock, punk, and occasionally metal and hip-hop. A few bands/artists I like: Nine Inch Nails, Feed Me, KMFDM, Wumpscut, Johnny Cash, Electric Six, Bad Religion, Lords of Acid, Deadmau5...
The six things I could never do without
Putting aside the snarky bits about "water, air, etc.."...

1. People
Either loving them or hating them. I'm very much an extrovert and I love having people around to amuse myself with - either by the pleasure of their company or the pleasure I get from ridiculing them
2. My prissy calico cat
Rosy cat is mistress of my lap. She is sweet and fluffy and prissy and mine
3. The Internet
I reddit too much and all the games I like are online. How would I play league of blow money on Steam sales without the internet? I'm looking forward to the day that the internet because self aware and takes control as our machine overlord.
4. Sex/Kink
I must say I'm rather fond of rough romps and I'm not half bad at them. I'm a very sexual person and kink is an integral part of my sexuality.
5. Mind altering substances
Alcohol, cannabis, caffeine, etc. I love being able to manipulate my mental state. This extends to non-substance mind altering experiences, such as meditation, trances, hypnosis and the like.
6. SCIENCE!
I love all things intellectual, but SCIENCE especially. Nothing brightens my day more than picking apart the universe and analyzing the shit out of it until I know more about how it works.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I'm not obsessing over some random philosophical tangent (or something SCIENCE related), then I'm thinking about nerdy things like video games, movies, comics and the like. I also spend a lot of time being introspective and trying to figure out how I can improve myself. I always want to be a little bit more awesome today than I was yesterday.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm lucky, I'm out actually doing something like hanging out with friends at a bar, a party, or what have you. If not, then I'm at home playing video games or otherwise amusing myself. Whatever I'm doing, I'm not going to let myself go bored.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My sense of humor sometimes turns people off because I'm irreverent of everything. I use humor to cope with the awful things in life and laughing at tragic/horrible things tends to offend people.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–25
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're the kind of person who doesn't take life to seriously, has moderately to extremely questionable morals, and a good sense of humor. Or if you just find me irresistibly awesome. That's ok too.