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I am a spiritual person, not to be confused for religious. As religion and spirituality are NOT the same thing, although they often go hand in hand.

I am both an intellectual geek and a gamer geek. But I am one of the coolest, most down to earth geeks you will ever know.

One of my friends labeled me as "the all-seeing, all-saying, all-see-saying soothsayer" when I was a teenager. I have continued that path to enlightenment even to today.

I am generous by nature, sometimes to a fault. I am always willing to lend an ear or hand and it often causes me to neglect my significant others, but
my children always come first.

I have a young daughter. I love to watch her discover the world, and try to see the world as shiny and new as she does, while maintaining enough jadedness not to allow her or myself to be taken advantage of.

I lost my infant son who is pictured with me. He died June 30th, 2007. His name was Ronin, and he was 3 months and nine days old when he died of S.I.D.S. I greatly enjoyed the time I had with him although it was tragically short. I miss him more than I can ever find words for. He is in my pics because he was alive when I opened my account, and I will only add more recent pictures to view until I can give him his own Memorial website. Only then will I feel it appropriate to change those pictures. I hope everyone can understand.

I had my second baby girl on Sept. 16th. I am a complete nervous wreck now that she is approaching the same age as my son was when he died. But I am trying desperately not to be too overprotective. She is also beautiful. And she is growing like a weed.

I am in a semi-serious relationship. We are engaged, but we are both polyamorous. So hence the term semi-serious.

We are trying to make our quality of life a little better than it has been the last few years.

I finally have a car of my own, and we just moved into our first apartment in several years. And we just had a new baby girl. And yes, I AM working too. So time is precious little for updating profiles. Her older sister is thrilled.

According to my players,I am really good at being the GM of D&D games. For those who are not into gaming, that means I can tell a really good story and have a creative way of working people's ideas and plans into my own.

I love writing poetry, and, apparently, I am halfway decent at that, as I have been published a couple of times.

My friends and my husband-to-be say that I am really good at being a mom, but we will have to ask my older daughter her opinion in about 21 years and my younger daughter in about 25-26.

How do I know? I am not other people looking at me.

Most people say my eyes, but come on...how cheesy is that.

My kids (including my S.O.), My jeans, My smokes, My insanity (also my S.O.), and Comfy Sneakers (of course with good socks).

How to make the world a better place, one person at a time, including myself.

Seeking the path to enlightenment.

Taking care of my friends, and family.

Trying to make ends meet.

All in that order usually.

Depends on how much money I have, how much gas is in my car, and how tired I am. I could be relaxing enjoying a night in w/ movies, I could be out and about with friends until 6am, or something so silly as going to bed at like 8pm.

My guilty pleasures are: dancing around the house naked, listening to Madonna, vanilla/conventional sex, healthy food, and exercise.

You don't think that I am too serious for you, or too geeky.