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33 F Arlington, VA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 31–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:16am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Russian

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm friendly, intelligent, well-traveled and have a creative streak.

Looking for a guy who, hopefully, has a certain sense of drive about him; loves and cares for those close to him; values maturity, yet appreciates some dedicated silliness.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Re my profession - I'm a consultant at a media company. Work can be intense, but I learn a lot, slowly but surely see the results of my efforts, and it's never boring.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing. It's a hobby I picked up several years ago. I love it and I'm getting pretty good at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading - a lot, mostly good fiction. Recently fell into Audible.
Music - a bit of everything: from Duffy to opera to Coldplay to Sting.
Food - bring it on, I love it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Has any one of you seen anything useful in this section? If you have - do tell, I'm all ears.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something with my friends - something fun, or silly, or new, or tried out and great.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I currently don't have a car and don't plan on getting one. So, you need to be close enough for this not to be a long-distance communication (sorry, Baltimore).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to tell me about a trip you took, or some weirdly interesting movie or documentary you watched. A clip from the Daily Show or your favorite show would do as well. Mythbusters anyone? The best thing that happened to you this week?

And remember - "We're all just dorks, with varying degrees of public mastery over our dorkishness" (C. Hax) So, don't overthink it.

P.S. Thank you for your messages. I appreciate them, especially the ones clearly written with care. I respond to the ones, where I see potential for a match. Unfortunately, dating is not about affirmative action and equal opportunity :) It's not always fair for either side. In such case, let's take a breath, smile and move on.