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36 F Bellevue, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 3″ (1.61m)
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Graduated from university
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Has kids

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My self-summary
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-See the good in people and situations; yet work hard to remain conscious and aware
-work hard to forgive, but believe that forgiveness doesn’t necessarily equate to the continuation of a relationship
-work hard to keep my children top priority, but also work hard to keep self-care a top priority, too, (and believe that self-care is not selfish)
-am genuinely a good person, but know that I am a flawed human; I believe this is true for all of humanity
- continue to work hard to attain excellence (and work to differentiate between realistic, attainable excellence and unrealistic, unattainable perfection)
-have a positive attitude, in general, yet work hard to remain realistic and free from delusion
-have a positive self-image, in general, yet self-reflect to remain self-aware and work hard to self-improve
-enjoy helping others and impacting humanity positively, yet work hard to avoid enabling behaviors and let go to give others the opportunity to do their own work
-believe my true beauty radiates from the inside to the outside and choose to let my light shine
-choose not to (and work hard not to) give anyone else the power to dim or extinguish my beautiful light
-enjoy intellectual discussions and find that the more I “know”, the more unknown of which I become aware
-believe in God and have a strong faith, yet believe this faith must be active and entails immense personal responsibility
-believe actions speak louder than words, but enjoy receiving (and communicating) the words that coincide with those actions
-am talented in my profession, yet humble
-am easygoing and go with the flow with most superficial details and decisions, yet rigid and unwavering with moral, ethical details and decisions
-have a loving nature and work hard to love others the way they need/want to be loved
-am willing to stand up for what I believe is right and am willing to advocate for those whose voice is muffled or silenced
-value honor and integrity, and work hard to walk my talk
-value and believe I exhibit generosity, trustworthiness, kindness, joyfulness, loyalty, and also believe I am calming, articulate, empathetic, warm, thoughtful, and driven
-love to laugh and laugh often and heartily; I value and believe I have a healthy sense of humor
-have a light-hearted nature, smile often, and live with gratitude
-am not afraid to take most risks and believe that happiness is the journey itself and not the destination
-reflect on the past to learn, dream for the future, but work hard to live in the moment
-have an incredible intuition and trust myself
-enjoy running and believe running is my health maintenance, anti-depressant, stress-relief, and a method to connect with nature
-believe we are all artists working in co-creation with God, and believe that God can ultimately work all things together for good
-long for a life partner with similar values and goals with whom I can love, share, synergize, mutually serve, laugh, support, encourage, and trust.
-enjoy spending quality time with my children, family, and friends, meeting new people, participating in my children’s activities, and working hard to provide for my family
-enjoy cooking for others, gathering people together, meeting new people, hiking, camping, traveling, experiencing nature, prayer, quilting (although choose to hiatus this activity for now), fine arts, most genres of music, and the diversity of humanity
- enjoy the Office, 80s entertainment (movies, sit-coms, music, etc), Peter Cetera, country music, Christian music, musicals, most types of food, including spicy food, concerts, art festivals, fairs, and supporting causes in which I believe
-am equally as content in a fine restaurant and hotel, as I am camping in the woods cooking by fire with no amenities (I enjoy this diversity)—most of the time, I prefer the natural and simple, yet have an appreciation for the “finer” things and tend to have a “high-end” taste
-value education and believe I am a life-long learner, continuing to learn, grow, and become
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, Loving, Learning, Celebrating, and Becoming
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
acknowledging that I remain a work in progress!
The first things people usually notice about me
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my positive energy and zest for life...I've been told that I make people feel good about themselves; I believe I am just reflecting God's love (energy) and their own love (energy).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Bible, Jesus Calling, Daily Word by Unity, The Art of Happiness, any Nicholas Sparks books and movies (yes, I am a hopeful romantic), The Last Lecture, any self-improvement, motivational, and quote books

Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, The Notebook, Pay it Forward, Girls Just Want to Have Fun, Cool as Ice, Love Actually, The Sound of Music, The Wizard of Oz, The Lion King, Brave, Splash, Beaches, Fried Green Tomatoes, Can't Buy Me Love, Billy Madison, Something About Mary; I love comedies, romantic comedies, dramas, suspense, and most Disney movies (I enjoy and will watch most movies but least enjoy horror and sci -fi).

Shows: The Office, 80s sitcoms, but don't currently watch TV.

Music: 80s, Country, Christian, Pop, classical, and anything Peter Cetera

Food: It is challenging to think of any foods that I don't enjoy--love Thai, Indian, Persian, Sushi, Vegetarian, Fusion, Spicy, and anything unique. Don't enjoy liver, tapioca or fish roe (I have a childhood memory associated with my detest of liver and can't tolerate the texture of tapioca or fish roe!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
More than 6 and not "things":

My children
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
Family (Friends)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
remaining conscious, aware, and in the moment; reflecting to ensure that my consciousness supersedes my hope; all the blessing for which I have to be grateful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing after a long, full, busy work/school/activity week; usually playing a game or cuddling, watching a movie with my little ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I work hard to live transparently, so I can't think of anything I wouldn't admit; am still learning about me, so maybe we'll learn something new together :)
You should message me if
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you live with integrity, have a sense of humor, and are down-to-earth. intelligent, humble, loving, emotionally available, generous, thoughtful, kind, courageous, and are looking for a life partner to love and cherish.