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30 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:36pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am 30 year old woman living in the heart of San Francisco. I love to spend time out and about in the city. I'll take pretty much any opportunity I can to dress up in a dress and do my hair. I've been accused of being over-amorous, hyper-feminine, and hyper-masculine. I have 3 siblings - all brothers, so that may also explain the dichotomy. It may also explain why I love playing/watching people play video games (seriously? Can we talk for a second about Bloodborne? So cool.).

Other things I love: musicals, wine, going exploring on sunny days, being under blankets on rainy days, the color red, really good french food, taking humor way too far, Christmas.

I dislike riding in cars because I get carsick.

I came out to the west coast after growing up in rural Iowa. At the time I played an embarrassing amount of Final Fantasy XI, and some WoW for good measure. I ended up meeting a couple in the virtual world and they invited me to leave my life in said small town, Iowa to move to the cultural melting pot I now call home. I was 20. The decision was made in the period of about 2.5 weeks. I quit my college program, my job, and my then relationship. It's now nearly a decade later and I feel like I've dropped the mic on that shit.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to set goals for myself and achieve them.

I work as a Producer at a company that makes children's games and apps.

I've also been singularly focused on getting out of debt, and I'm in the last year of the process. Home. Stretch. However, that's made me a bit of a homebody in recent months. I'd be very into going on some adventures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at dealing with people kindly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People normally notice my bright blue eyes...and the fact that I am having more fun than anyone else in the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like electronic music, jazz, and soul/funk. I also love showtunes. Don't hate.

I love good food! I'm pretty adventurous with it, and am willing to try most things. I have a real love for French food though. And my favorite foods: seafood (except raw shellfish) and mushrooms (all/any).

I like biographies about old hollywood starlets, and books about the human brain. Also - George RR Martin. I have a book club with some ladies I'm friends with and its really been fun! I discovered how much cleaning I can do listening to an audiobook.

Film is a huge interest of mine. Particularly films that are sources of nostalgia. I can out quote pretty much anyone when it comes to the films I own.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Copy of Breakfast at Tiffany's
Collection of ceramic cookware
My closest friend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Deadlines, plot lines, movie quotes, song lyrics.

I also think about the human race and the things I might be able to do to make the world a better place for the next generation. Cheesy as hell, I know. But nonetheless true.

I'm also thinking: "when will I find someone I'm drift-compatible with?".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner and drinking wine with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a breast reduction when I was 17. Please don't write me just to talk about it, though.

And, frankly, I'm looking for love. I'm ready to start the next stage of my life with marriage and a family. I'm not in a particular rush, but my heart and soul are open and ready.
You should message me if
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You have something thoughtful to say.

You think I'm, like, crazy sexy and you need a date for a fancy event with tiny appetizers and wine. (Like I mentioned, ANY excuse I can get to dress up and be a lady...)

If you think this may be one of the funniest videos you've seen in a while:

....or if you're Don Draper. Extra points for that. /swoon