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NoGameClub

30 / M / Straight / Single

Palo Alto, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:55pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Michigan -> Stanford -> D.C. -> Bay Area

I have a type A-/B+ personality:
-I do the things you're "supposed" to do and when it's time to work, I push myself hard
-But what I really care about is being happy, making the days of those around me better, and living my life in a way that I can be proud of
-I'm a bit goofy. I like to have fun and I do and say silly/cheesy/corny things to achieve said fun*

Notes:
-Athletic body type in my case is strong and quick. I do not have a long distance runner's body
-*That makes me sound like a clown. I am not a professional clown
What I’m doing with my life
The Boring Stuff: I oversee real estate for a fast-growing software company. I've been able to travel around the world, manage complex initiatives, lead a great team of people, and help a company grow.

The Fun Stuff: Spending time with the people I'm close to, even if it means I show up on their doorstep on the east coast, Europe, or Australia, ready to hang out. It doesn't really matter what we're doing, it's the time and company that counts.

In Between:
-Training for a sprint triathlon (first one, we'll see how this works out!)
-Run, swim, bike, row, lift, crossfit
-Playing basketball (poorly), flag football, and rugby (when I can find a match)
I’m really good at
Being part of and leading a team
-I've always cared a great deal about how the people around me fare
-I get really excited working with a group to accomplish something
-Even in sports, I've always been drawn to team games (rugby, football, basketball) rather than individual sports.

Making people around me feel comfortable and cared for
-I'm a kind person
-I'm also a pretty calm, reserved person, so when shit is hitting the fan, I'm holding the umbrella for everyone. Figuratively.
The first things people usually notice about me
Quick to smile, laugh, or make a bad joke
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In order of "like":

Music - Electronic, hip hop, R&B, jazz, funk, soul, and a whole lot of random stuff people introduce me to. Current list: Quantic, Jill Scott, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Rodney Hunter, Mac Miller.

TV shows - I am a sucker for pretty much every show HBO has aired (Band of Brothers, Sopranos, The Wire). The same is starting to be true for BBC and British TV in general (Sherlock, Luther, Skins, MisFits).

Movies - Too many to list. I'm definitely mid-brow, though.

Books - Mainly non-fiction, usually history. But, the last book I really enjoyed was The Art of Fielding (fiction).

Food - I'll try anything, but I'll take a simple, well prepared dish over something fancy every time.
The six things I could never do without
-My friends and family (I have a lot to live up to)
-Comedy (I have a loud laugh
and I'm not afraid to use it)
-Games (rugby, basketball, football, video, card, board)
-Music (I basically need a soundtrack for anything I do)
-Something to plan (I make lists. Lots of lists. A few I actually finish)
-TBD
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to simplify life. For example:

-Why are taxes so convoluted?
-Nutrition: eat good food when you're hungry. Calories in equal to calories out.
-Environmental stewardship = simply the right thing to do
On a typical Friday night I am
I recently realized that my Fridays aren't really that much different than any other day of the week. I work and then I play, pretty much every day. I just stay up a little later on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There's nothing I wouldn't admit to: I'm scared of spiders. And roller coasters. And sometimes when I'm home alone I get scared. And my solution to that is to talk crazy out loud, in hopes of scaring away "bad guys". I'm going to stop now...
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're comfortable in your own skin, you enjoy the give and take of getting to know and being in a relationship with someone, and you don't take yourself too seriously.

Also, you're completely fine stepping out in a basic outfit and little-to-no make up: you're sexy the way you are.