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30 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Strictly other
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
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Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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eccentric intellectual philosophical contemplative laconic. sense of humor. political tasteful tactful. neither follower nor leader. few but deep relationships.

not into small talk. be interesting, be interested. see what's under the surface.

I am an enneagram type 6 (bordering on 5) and I prefer the company of, in order from most to least, types 4, 6, 5, 1, 9, 7, 8, 3, 2. sorry, twos. take your people-pleasing shenanigans elsewhere, because I am not ever going to respond to the concealed expectations inside your play-acts of generosity.

Also an INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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being psychologically off the grid. I do not, on principle, believe anything (or pretend to believe anything) merely because it's fashionable and this has put me pretty far outside of most norms (which rely on belonging-based belief structures). ASK ME ANYTHNG! PREPARE FOR WEIRD ANSWERS!

I do not seek career or family, and I do not bind well to group mentality of any kind. I am here to discover why I am here and not to accept any answer given to me by TV, religion, self-help books, or -- god forbid -- astrology.
I’m really good at
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fitness/nutrition. dream analysis. money. logic. writing. humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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read: philosophy, spirituality, classic novels.

watch: comedy, absurd and nuanced, non-formulaic. documentaries. operetic dramas. too many cooks.

Listen: electronic, industrial, edm, indie rock, select pop rock from the 90s and select heavy metal. Electric Six, KMFDM, Deadmau5, LCD Soundsystem, NIN, Radiohead, The Decemberists, Alice in Chains, RHCP, Megadeth. dark ambient and sludge.

Eat: everything. healthy, but not consistently. adventurous. home staples: cheese, eggs, fresh fruit, green smoothies, green vegetables, guacamole, tilapia, chicken breast, hot spices, hot sauce, whey protein, peanut butter, oatmeal. dining out staples: mexican, indian, sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
long period of personally-controlled time
new information and perspectives
high population density
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. thinking about thinking. food. thinking about food. thinking about thinking about food.

how to make actual, observable change in the world if I do really know better.

whether or not I really know better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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- You do not identify as a feminist
- You do not use the phrases "person of color" or "people of color" under any circumstances except to mock them

you are a B-type person acccording to this

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