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NoIamDoesNot

30 Oakland, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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eccentric intellectual philosophical contemplative laconic. sense of humor. political tasteful tactful. neither follower nor leader. few but deep relationships.

not into small talk. be interesting, be interested. see what's under the surface.

I am an enneagram type 6 (bordering on 5) and I prefer the company of, in order from most to least, types 4, 6, 5, 1, 9, 7, 8, 3, 2. sorry, twos. take your people-pleasing shenanigans elsewhere, because I am not ever going to respond to the concealed expectations inside your play-acts of generosity.

http://www.enneagramquiz.com/quiz.html

Also an INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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being psychologically off the grid. I do not, on principle, believe anything (or pretend to believe anything) merely because it's fashionable and this has put me pretty far outside of most norms (which rely on belonging-based belief structures). ASK ME ANYTHNG! PREPARE FOR WEIRD ANSWERS!

I do not seek career or family, and I do not bind well to group mentality of any kind. I am here to discover why I am here and not to accept any answer given to me by TV, religion, self-help books, or -- god forbid -- astrology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
fitness/nutrition. dream analysis. money. logic. writing. humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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read: philosophy, spirituality, classic novels.

watch: comedy, absurd and nuanced, non-formulaic. documentaries. operetic dramas. too many cooks.

Listen: electronic, industrial, edm, indie rock, select pop rock from the 90s and select heavy metal. Electric Six, KMFDM, Deadmau5, LCD Soundsystem, NIN, Radiohead, The Decemberists, Alice in Chains, RHCP, Megadeth. dark ambient and sludge.

Eat: everything. healthy, but not consistently. adventurous. home staples: cheese, eggs, fresh fruit, green smoothies, green vegetables, guacamole, tilapia, chicken breast, hot spices, hot sauce, whey protein, peanut butter, oatmeal. dining out staples: mexican, indian, sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
privacy
long period of personally-controlled time
internet
new information and perspectives
high population density
activity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. thinking about thinking. food. thinking about food. thinking about thinking about food.

how to make actual, observable change in the world if I do really know better.

whether or not I really know better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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you like a challenge

you are a B-type person acccording to this

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