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NoIamDoesNot

30 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:12am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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eccentric intellectual philosophical contemplative laconic. sense of humor. political tasteful tactful. neither follower nor leader. few but deep relationships.

not into small talk. be interesting, be interested. see what's under the surface.
What I’m doing with my life
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being psychologically off the grid. I do not believe anything because it's fashionable.
I’m really good at
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fitness/ nutrition. dream analysis. money. logic. writing. humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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read: philosophy, spirituality, classic novels.

watch: comedy, absurd and nuanced, non-formulaic. documentaries. operetic dramas.

Listen: electronic, industrial, edm, indie rock, select pop rock from the 90s and select heavy metal. Electric Six, KMFDM, Deadmau5, LCD Soundsystem, NIN, Radiohead, The Decemberists, Alice in Chains, RHCP, Megadeth. dark ambient and sludge.

Eat: everything. healthy, but not consistently. adventurous. home staples: cheese, eggs, fresh fruit, green smoothies, green vegetables, guacamole, tilapia, chicken breast, hot spices, hot sauce, whey protein, peanut butter, oatmeal. dining out staples: mexican, indian, sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
private space
extended periods of personal time
internet connection
new information and perspective
high population density
satisfying activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. thinking about thinking. food. thinking about food. thinking about thinking about thinking.

how to make actual change in the world if i really know better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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you like a challenge