Professionally I am an ethical leatherworker, expressing my love for my craft in making useful objects of beauty and longevity, using natural and sustainable practices, but my passions are numerous: I compose classical music; I write fiction; I paint, sculpt, and draw; and have multitudinous projects, such as the language I created, the faith I designed, and even the geekiness of my own RPG system :-) I am a servant to symmetry, a creator in all pursuits, and an uncompromising perfectionist.
Romantically I open the floodgates. I fall deeply in love with the people I connect with sexually, so please realize that if you want something casual, it would be best that you look elsewhere. I am polyamorous and madly in love with my wife, which means both she and I have or have had extramarital partners with whom we have shared the same intensity of love and connection. Ultimately I am searching for a single life-partner beyond my wife to share in my future, but my restrictions on such a partner are very open-ended: love who you wish and do as you wish, as long as the commitment to our bond remains healthy.
Sexually I am transcendent. I view sex as the ultimate sacred act of worship: my temple is the body of my partner, and their pleasure is my ectasy. Because of this I find it challenging to accommodate degrading acts, or partners who have learned what sex is from mainstream pornography, but I am always open to learn from you what fulfills you the best, and do my best to carve it a place in my cathedral.
When I make love to a woman, I feel like I am touching the Goddess incarnate, and when I am with a man, I feel like I'm partying with Pan ;-) Not that I restrict myself to the idea of binary gender! In fact, trans, bigendered, agendered, and genderqueer folk hold a special place in my heart, and often hold a special attraction. I do feel that a person's gender identity can be celebrated without that meaning that other people's expressions need to be defined by that schema. I am somehow a celebrant of the divine feminine and the divine masculine, while also having dated more gender-variant folk than cis folk and felt enriched by it. Overall it doesn't matter to me how you identify or what's stashed in your pants, I'll come to love you by your heart, not your parts.