Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Perhaps the simplest summary of me is this: I adore. With no
exaggeration, I am the most loving person you will meet.
Professionally I am an ethical leatherworker, expressing my love
for my craft in making useful objects of beauty and longevity,
using natural and sustainable practices, but my passions are
numerous: I compose classical music; I write fiction; I paint,
sculpt, and draw; and have multitudinous projects, such as the
language I created, the faith I designed, and even the geekiness of
my own RPG system :-) I am a servant to symmetry, a creator in all
pursuits, and an uncompromising perfectionist.
Romantically I open the floodgates. I fall deeply in love with the
people I connect with sexually, so please realize that if you want
something casual, it would be best that you look elsewhere. I am
polyamorous and madly in love with my wife, which means both she
and I have or have had extramarital partners with whom we have
shared the same intensity of love and connection. Ultimately I am
searching for a single life-partner beyond my wife to share in my
future, but my restrictions on such a partner are very open-ended:
love who you wish and do as you wish, as long as the commitment to
our bond remains healthy.
Sexually I am transcendent. I view sex as the ultimate sacred act
of worship: my temple is the body of my partner, and their pleasure
is my ectasy. Because of this I find it challenging to accommodate
degrading acts, or partners who have learned what sex is from
mainstream pornography, but I am always open to learn from you what
fulfills you the best, and do my best to carve it a place in my
I'm a hearts not parts person, so gender-variant folk feel welcome
to apply :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have now joined my wife in our nascent handicraft business,
having left my position with a graphic design firm. I am finally in
a place in my life where I am responsible for my own success or
failure and I know I am on the right path; a path in line with my
principles of sustainability.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Perfecting. I only ever learn things for as long as it takes me to
figure out how to make them better. Then output takes over from
input. It both drives me forward but also hamstrings me; it is my
biggest motivator and my biggest handicap. I have been called a
genius by some, and an idiot by others. I can be quite intelligent,
but I am also easily confused.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My childlike emotional honesty and love of physical affection. I am
always the first to hug and the last to let go.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love of my beautiful wife; a warm hug from a kind friend; the
sensation of sleeping beside a trusted ally; fully-embraced
sexuality; honest reactions to my art; not so honest reassurances
when I am down.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better partner to my wife and the other people who
bless my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on some over-ambitious creative project, or just taking
quiet quality time with a loved one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have brain damage. Its advent made my life do a right turn,
steering me away from the path of my honours degree in Physics and
Math, and making me struggle for the things that once came easily.
Despite all of the trauma it brought, I am actually much happier
living as I am now, so I see a certain wisdom in it: its violent
work has made me a more fulfilled and kinder person, someone who I
can love and cherish on a path in line with my principles and
You should message me if
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You are not made nervous by relationships which have depth, and you
are willing to make yourself vulnerable to achieve growth and
connection. I have all the time and care in the world for those who
are willing to be real with me.
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