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30 Northampton, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 10, 2014
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Hmm...mostly I like sitting at coffee shops, talking about brains and disabilities and psychology and our lives and our histories and bad t.v. and pop music and cats.

Social justice is important to me. I've participated in non-hierarchical organizing in lots of [effective and not so effective!] ways throughout the years. Now, though, I spend most of my time in the bureaucratic world of public education because it's where I saw the most opportunity to put my passion for neurodiversity to good use.

I'd be amped to find someone to go to Springfield No One Leaves actions/events with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just started a new teaching job in an area where there is no curriculum and a lot of individualized programming soooo....I'm working a lot. Other than that I am baking, watching Orange Is The New Black, and coffeeshopping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being empathetic and a straight shooter simultaneously. Getting feisty about injustice. Laughing at innuendos like a 12 year old. Marathoning The Office, Cupcake Wars, and Bones.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Look Me In the Eyes by John Robison, The Journal of Best Practices by David Finch, Not Even Wrong by Paul Collins. I also enjoy reading books written by badass teachers, everything by Johnathon Kozol, Dostoevsky, Margaret Atwood, and the Brontes.

Movies: Citizen Autistic. Metropia. Documentaries about people with disabilities and/or mental health disorders. The Little Mermaid.

Show: Frontline, especially when Najibullah is the host. Big Bang Theory. Ru Paul's Drag Race. The Office.

Food: Indian. Ethiopian. Grapes. Oranges. Enchiladas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Mobility

2. Connection with friends and family, the act of supporting and encouraging and sharing with each other.

3. Relaxation techniques. Deep pressure and mindfulness and journaling and exercise.

4. Baking!

5. All fresh water activities: Ice skating, swimming, tubing, kayaking

6. Mountains-anything to do with mountains. Except goats. (Except the band).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I should bake. How much money I spend at coffee shops. Brains and mental health and disabilities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing from the week by baking and watching t.v., hanging out with a friend at a coffee shop, or going on a date with a stranger from the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you're a man with no shirt or a woman posing cleavage shots I'm going to give you 1 star and I'm going to enjoy it.
You should message me if
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You want to hang out and chit chat, but probably never do more than that. That seems to be what every okc relationship turns into for me and I find that to be relatively ideal.

If by some chance we were to engage in something more than a friendship level, my ideal fella/lady is a somewhat introverted atheist/atheist agnostic who is very kind, enjoys chit chats, adores kitties, and is comfortable giving/receiving affection. And affection is not a euphemism. Harumph.

O yeah, and I always think it is off putting when people have "don't message me if..." things, but I just found a condition that is worth including.

Please do not message me if the primary profile photo of yours includes you wearing google glass. I am just pretty sure it couldn't work out between us.