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NoSetPath

37 Oakland, CA Genderfluid, Non-binary, Man

Genderfluid, Non-binary, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:08am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for partners who fill my world with interesting things and amazing experiences. I want to connect with other people on a level beyond the superficial. Barely spoken moments, met glances with saucy smiles and dancing eyes, from across a room or fleeting as I bike past.

I like shy, yet confident while still being cute, people. Individuals who can hold conversations but not make it only about themselves. Well read individuals from the most basic paperback to introspective growth texts. I'm attracted to bigness: thick curves, enormous ideas (and the drive to make things happen), turning life up to 11 for those tips of the bellcurve and being able to curl up and sink into comfort at a solid -4 sometimes as well. People smart enough to know they are awesome but not cocky about it. People who know they are beautiful without letting it ruin them.

Juxtaposition and Dichotomy are some of my biggest turn-ons. Straddling lines and weaving through rules while still making forward progress to whatever it is excites you and drives you there. Share that with me and enjoy when I share it with you.

I want creatures in my life I can get lost with through day trips, projects and events. Imaginations that float high without losing sight of the ground. It's a a special, rare balance of dreamer/scientist I seek.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
New to Oakland, by way of Detroit. I grew up in the suburbs and then spent the last couple living within the city above a gallery/venue space where a lot of eclectic events happened downstairs. Currently staying in West Oakland while working in a new field and finding my own challenges to overcome on a very personal level.

Changed my outlook as well as my intake. Breathing deep, learning to let go and discovering my next chapter. As my name implies, it's a winding journey. Figuring out what I need to level up in order to do what it is I want to do. Concentrating on what I need to create.

Spending time exploring the kink/poly/sex positive scene here in the bay. Events like Kinky Salon, Bent, Folsom Street Fair, etc are all on my radar and would love to find a partner in crime to attend.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-finding my way around on my bike
-Intelligent yet inane conversations about random correlations
-researching topics that interest me to no end
-hurting people who enjoy it and learning to enjoy being hurt more
-finding the bright side to almost any situation
-exploring innerspace
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-my facial hair. It's kind of awesome.
-my laugh
-I talk, a lot
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books:
Geek Love, The Dark Tower series, Game of Thrones, anything by Hunter S Thompson, Elmore Leonard and Christopher Moore. World War Z, War Day, American Gods, The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test, Sex At Dawn. I recently started "How to Be An Adult".

movies:
Mad Max: Fury Road, Gravity, Videodrome, Requiem For A Dream, The Muppets, Cabin In The Woods, The Big Lebowski, All the Cohen Brothers movies, John Dies In The End, Interstellar. lots of weird, eclectic stuff. Dance-off movies and Musicals.

tv:
The Wire, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Adventure Time, Archer, Rick and Morty.

music:
Electronica - Glitch Hop, Psytrance, Electro House, Trip-hop

Dirty, filthy garage rock - white stripes, rolling stones, george thoroughgood, the black keyes

hip hop - B.O.B., Macklemore, KRS-One, Public Enemy, Atmosphere, Cunning Linguists, Jurassic 5, Immortal Technique.

punk/ska - Iggy and the Stooges, Gogol Bordello, Flogging Molly, Reel Big fish, Streetlight Manifesto, Caravan Palace

Silly shit - TMBG, Stephen Lynch, MIKA, Jonathan Coulton, Epic Rap Battles of History

Tom Waits is a God. Seriously.

food: I eat things that taste good. My friends tell me the taco truck a block from their apartment is the best in the area. I'm down to compare with yours and find out if it's true. Because one partner is a vegetarian, I'm sensitive to people's food needs, but I'll eat pretty much anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
honesty
music
my bohemian family
my bike
intelligent conversation
smiling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why people let society dictate what they do instead of what makes them happy and fulfilled.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday night, everything is new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I judge anyone who puts "I like to have fun!" in their profile as the most boring person ever. Seriously. Everyone likes to have fun. Use your words and tell me something about yourself.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You love to talk about random things
-you can show me around Oakland or San Fran and help me find my type of weird here.
-you actually read this to the end
-you don't have a problem when I send you my cell number to text.
-you understand why Meghan Trainer and Iggy Azalea suck
-you think people scared of Oakland is silly.
-you're poly or poly friendly
-you can send a message that isn't 1 or 2 lines
-If we are a match above 80% you should think about it. If we're above 90% you should do it just so we can squeal like schoolgirls about all the things we have in common, like breathing and our love for "dance-off" movies.