***I'm looking for a primary partner who is also searching for this poly ideal of freedom and enjoyment in life. In addition I'm always down for playmates who are interested in exploring all things with a hedonistic bend, kinky or otherwise.***
The years I've spent on this rock have shown me that no matter how much we plan, things throw us off whatever course we've plotted. It's taken me years to embrace this and found myself happier as a result. To quote Bill Hicks, "It's just a ride."
I'm very into dichotomy, juxtaposition and coloring outside the lines. Monogamy doesn't work for me, at all and jealous people suck. This does not mean I'm a total man-whore, it just means I am a pansexual, somewhat genderfluid, kinky switch so one person could never fill all my wants or desires. I don't understand jealousy and I really don't understand small-minded people who restrict pleasure because of it. I present as a cismale because that's comfy to me. Don't judge a book by it's cover, though.
I grew up near Detroit and spent the last two years living inside that city watching it grow. I've recently relocated to the left coast and Oakland looking for a place to live that falls more in line with my politics, lifestyle and way of thinking. I'm still exploring the bay, so any help finding the cool, non touristy hang-out spots would be fantastic. I tend towards weird, underground, non-typical events.
I put myself as bisexual, but I really hate labels. Gender, sexuality, kinkiness, etc are all on a spectrum. I was involved in a triad the summer of 2014 and am still dating the wife of that relationship as well as building a new Bohemian Family locally. Very much finding I'm more into queer folks. I like when my partners are fluctuating in their gender and who switch Top to bottom.