I like shy, yet confident, while still being cute people. Individuals who can hold conversations but not make it only about themselves. Well read individuals from the most basic paperback to introspective growth texts. I'm attracted to bigness: thick curves, enormous ideas (and the drive to make things happen), turning life up to 11 for those tips of the bellcurve and being able to curl up and sink into comfort at a solid -4 sometimes as well. People smart enough to know they are awesome but not cocky about it. People who know they are beautiful without letting it ruin them.
Juxtaposition and Dichotomy are some of my biggest turn-ons. Straddling lines and weaving through rules while still making forward progress to whatever it is that excites and drives you. Share that with me and enjoy when I share it with you. I have changed my listing to simply say Bisexual Man, because Okc filters still aren't great with the "other" stuff, but I consider myself Genderfluid and Pansexual. I can be a bro and I can be a sissy, and everything in between. As such, I tend to only date other Unicorns, the definition being bisexual, poly, switches at the least and more-so pansexual, poly switches are the pinnacle of awesome. Genderfluid people to the front of the line. I also tend towards non-normal looking types. Brightly colored hair, visible tattoos, piercings. I'm currently designing a couple pieces of ink that will be my first and have various piercings for fashion and enjoyment around my body. Not a deal breaker, but there's something about a septum piercing or large ink chest piece that makes my eyes focus with intent.
I want creatures in my life I can get lost with through day trips, projects and events. Imaginations that float high without losing sight of the ground. It's a a special, rare balance of dreamer/scientist I seek.