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42 M Arlington, VA

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  • Ages 35–48
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Yesterday – 8:52pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
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Hmmmmm . . . let's see . . . what to say? I'm divorced and have two wonderful young daughters. I'm a lawyer with my own practice and a realtor. I'm from LI originally, but have lived in the DC area for eighteen years.

I'd like to think I'm a smart, funny, friendly, all around nice guy. I I believe that life should be an adventure. I appreciate simple things but am by no means a simple person. I'm very social and get along with everyone, but appreciate my alone time. I can be sardonic, sarcastic and somewhat cynical, but usually not all at the same time.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing mindfulness while doing my best to be a good man, live a good life, and make my mark on this crazy world.
I’m really good at
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Being a Dad, fixing things, killing spiders, cooking, and listening, among other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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One of my favorite nonfiction reads, which I keep going back to and would highly recommend, is Thich Nhat Hanh's Miracle of Mindfulness. It will give you a whole new approach on living life. I read a lot more fiction, though, and my current favorite authors are Neil Gaiman, Michael Chabon and Chuck Palahaniuk. I read Zone One by Colson Whitehead awhile back and highly recommend as a really well written literary take on the post apocalypse zombie genre. In the last few months, I've also read Dark Places by Gillian Flynn, Kraken by China Mieville, The Sparrow by Mary Doria Russell, and Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy.

With TV, I'm perpetually catching up on The Walking Dead and Game of Thrones, and I like soccer and hockey. I'm also a fan of the Welcome to Nightvale podcast - it's creepy, strange and very cool. With movies, I'm all over the place, although lately I've been watching mindless action stuff. As for music, lately I've been listening to new albums from The Deftones and Clutch, and older stuff from Tool and Nine Inch Nails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other than my girls, there's not a lot that I couldn't do without if it really came down to it. What would I rather not do without?My phone and MacBook, books, beer, and good single malt scotch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The vagaries of life's paths and where they lead us, and how much should I dial back my law practice while pursuing a career in real estate, which I'm in the middle of doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often having dinner out with my girls, and if not, then meeting up with friends or maybe cooking something tasty and enjoying a quiet evening in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've answered a lot of very private questions here on OKC, but if there is something you want to know, just ask!
You should message me if
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you have any questions, want to get to know me better, and/or would maybe even like to grab dinner or drinks. If that describes you, don't be shy! Send me a message! I'm always happy to chat and meet someone new.