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41 F Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:40pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I’m happiest when I’m with kindred spirits and outside enjoying nature. A perfect date would be hiking, coming home, cooking dinner, snuggling, and watching Game of Thrones or reading together. The men I'm attracted to are confident but not arrogant, creative, and inquisitive, and enjoy sharing their thoughts, dreams and adventures.

Love is about genuine interest in the way a person thinks, respect for how they live, and a longing to be in their arms. I'm looking for someone who is passionate and has the dream of building a beautiful life with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm learning. I'm inspired by what I learn and I'm baffled by what I learn and every day I go to bed curious for tomorrow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told I have a beautiful smile. When I smile it's ridiculously big and goofy like a 6 year old who just lost a tooth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Love in the Time of Cholera, The Moon is Down, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Great Expectations, Ender's Game and Charlotte's Web.

Movies: Coolidge Corner Theatre (Science on Screen) is wonderful. Shawshank Redemption, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Rashomon, Fight Club, Blade Runner, Patton, Ratatouille, Into the Wild, Memento, Moon, 2001 Space Odyssey, Amadeus, The Princess Bride, Citizen Kane, the Shining, Wedding Crashers, Anchorman, It's a Wonderful Life, Exit through the Gift Shop, and Deer Hunter.

Music: the Decemberists, Eddie Vedder, The Black Keys, Beirut, Beck, Morphine, Paul Simon, The Head and the Heart, and Civil Wars, and the Rustic Overtones. For venues I love Toad, Lizard Lounge and Atwood's.

Food: pistachios in the shell, Macintosh apples picked off the tree in the orchard near my parent's place in Maine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Today I wondered why apple blossoms smell so incredible and why I have chosen to live where I haven't heard an owl hoot at night in years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...either relaxing and cooking or meeting up with friends for rock climbing or drinks, pool and live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Both sides of my father's family came over on the second trip of the Mayflower. We settled in Salem and Ipswich. Nana always said we had witch blood in us.
You should message me if
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You love John Oliver;
You lead climb and need a belay partner;
A fun date would be running and then A4 pizza and beer;
Hanging out in a ski house with good friends cooking, skiing, winter hiking, and relaxing sounds like a perfect weekend;
A walk in the woods is more spiritual than going to church;
You prefer seeing a person or calling and hearing someone's voice to texting; and
You're over 38 and under 50.