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42 Somerville, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:14pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m happiest when I’m outside with people I love. A perfect date would be hiking, coming home, cooking dinner together and watching Sherlock Holmes or Game of Thrones. The men I'm attracted to are confident but not arrogant, creative, and inquisitive, and enjoy sharing their thoughts and dreams.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm learning. I'm inspired by what I learn, and I'm baffled by what I learn, and every day I go to bed curious for tomorrow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Love in the Time of Cholera, The Moon is Down, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Great Expectations, Ender's Game and Charlotte's Web.

Movies: Coolidge Corner Theatre (Science on Screen) is wonderful. Shawshank Redemption, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Rashomon, Fight Club, Blade Runner, Patton, Ratatouille, Into the Wild, Memento, Moon, 2001 Space Odyssey, Amadeus, Citizen Kane, Anchorman, It's a Wonderful Life, Exit through the Gift Shop, and Deer Hunter.

Music: the Decemberists, Eddie Vedder, The Black Keys, Beirut, Beck, Morphine, Paul Simon, The Head and the Heart, and Civil Wars, and the Rustic Overtones. For venues I love Toad, Lizard Lounge and Atwood's.

Food: Barolo, coupole cheese from the Vermont Creamery, Macintosh apples picked off the tree in the orchard near my parent's place in Maine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) New Englanders who tell it like it is;
2) The kindness of strangers - you're having a bad day and then someone just does a little unexpected nice thing and it's all good again;
3) My co-workers. I'm grateful I work in a place where I respect and enjoy the people around me;
4) My family. They have always been there for me and now I'm getting to the age where I'm the one they are relying on. It's unsettling but I'm glad I'm there for them;
5) Nature; and
6) Physical Activity. I'm the opposite of a couch-potato.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Does everyone think they are a good kisser but it's actually just a match on preference and chemistry?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...either relaxing and cooking or meeting up with friends for rock climbing and drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't care about material possessions, or classic good looks based on Hollywood or who knows what, or even whether we have similar hobbies. Do we both feel the chemistry, do we trust each other, do we respect how each other lives their life, and can we talk openly? There is nothing more attractive than authenticity.
You should message me if
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You love John Oliver;
You climb and need a belay partner;
A fun date would be A4 pizza and beer;
Hanging out in a ski house with good friends cooking, skiing, winter hiking, and relaxing sounds like a perfect weekend;
A walk in the woods is more spiritual than going to church;
You prefer seeing a person or calling and hearing someone's voice to texting; and
You're over 38 and under 50.