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42 Somerville, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd like to share a life with someone. A perfect time together would be hiking, coming home, cooking dinner and watching Sherlock Holmes. The men I'm attracted to are confident, creative, inquisitive, and enjoy sharing their thoughts and dreams.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm learning. I'm inspired by what I learn, and I'm baffled by what I learn, and every day I go to bed curious for tomorrow.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Love in the Time of Cholera, The Moon is Down, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Great Expectations, Ender's Game and Charlotte's Web.

Movies: Coolidge Corner Theatre (Science on Screen) is wonderful. Shawshank Redemption, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Rashomon, Fight Club, Blade Runner, Patton, Ratatouille, Into the Wild, Memento, Moon, 2001 Space Odyssey, Amadeus, Citizen Kane, Anchorman, It's a Wonderful Life, Exit through the Gift Shop, and Deer Hunter.

Music: the Decemberists, Eddie Vedder, The Black Keys, Beirut, Beck, Morphine, Paul Simon, The Head and the Heart, and Civil Wars, and the Rustic Overtones. For venues I love Toad, Lizard Lounge and Atwood's.

Food: Barolo, coupole cheese from the Vermont Creamery, Macintosh apples picked off the tree in the orchard near my parent's place in Maine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) New Englanders who tell it like it is;
2) The kindness of strangers;
3) My co-workers. I'm grateful I work in a place where I respect and enjoy the people around me;
4) My family. They have always been there for me and now I'm getting to the age where I'm the one they are relying on. It's unsettling but I'm glad I'm there for them;
5) Nature; and
6) Physical Activity. I'm the opposite of a couch-potato.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I should run or hike next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...either relaxing and cooking or meeting up with friends for rock climbing and drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most important things in a relationship are making each other feel loved, talking openly, and wanting the same type of relationship. I want the level of intimacy and growth that comes from living with another person and sharing a life. I also want a dog-badly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
A fun date would be A4 pizza and beer;
Hanging out in a ski house with good friends cooking, skiing, winter hiking, and relaxing sounds like a perfect weekend;
A walk in the woods is more spiritual than going to church;
You prefer seeing a person or calling and hearing someone's voice to texting; and
You're over 38.