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24 M Santa Ana, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:51pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
If I had to describe myself with on hyphenated word it would be well-balanced.

I'm soft spoken, but not shy. I listen carefully, but I procrastinate. I'm not rich, but I'm generous. I sometimes care too much, but am seldom angry. I love playing sports, but not following them. I sing or hum almost constantly, but no longer play an instrument. I am just as happy cuddling and watching Netflix as I am hiking and camping.

I've been described as a goof, a nerd, a jock, 'a little jukebox,' and the most normal person in an office that publishes video games.

I spent most of the first 21 years of my life in Michigan playing soccer, tennis, wrestling, and football while competing in quiz bowl and chess tournaments, and complaining about my piano lessons. I've spent the last three working, sleeping in hostels, climbing mountains, and occassionally waking up on the subway in Korea, the Philippines, and now California - but no, I wasn't in the military or teaching English.

I've been told that I can do anything, but I really just want to do everything. Care to join me?
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work as a marketing coordinator for a Japanese media publisher. I also work with a couple different startup companies mainly focused on mobile app development.

My typical weekly activities include rock climbing, flag football, some kind of happy hour, and hopefully soccer one day soon. (Seriously, invite me to be on your soccer team!)

For the future, I'm looking into grad schools, but that might have to wait a couple of years. I'd like to eventually get a PhD and spend my retired life as a part time professor...or on a boat...or in Europe. Who knows, I've got at least three more careers ahead of me before then, right? A lot could change.
I’m really good at
Staying calm. But no, I don't have a shirt, cup, or poster that says to do that.

Making people laugh. Sometimes it's at me, most of the time it's with me, but one way or another I'll make you crack a smile.
The first things people usually notice about me
The fact that my beard is mostly red and my hair is not.

That or my smile. I smile a lot. I'm pretty sure some people take that as a sign of an empty head, but I think it just means I've figured out the key to happiness. :)

If you haven't already, you should listen to the This American Life episode about happiness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Calvin and Hobbes, anything fantasy (A Game of Thrones, Wheel of Time), dystopian sci-fi (1984, Brave New World, World War Z), or well... anything. I like books that teach me stuff too. Currently trying to decide my next book - got a recommendation?

Movies: Basically anything. I've only ran into one movie on Netflix that I couldn't finish; a terrible parody called Taintlight. The horror...

Shows: The Little Rascals, Big Bang, How I Met Your Mother, Traffic Light, Whose Line Is It Anyway?, Game of Thrones, Sherlock, Shameless, et. al.

Music: Honestly, I love just about anything that's not metal or trance. Some specific artists I enjoy are Disney (yes, I know Disney is not an artist, but does it really matter?), Watsky, Elton John, Simon & Garfunkle, Lindsay Stirling, Yellowcard, Snow Patrol, The Fray, and the list goes on and on.

Food: All of it! More specifically: Ice Cream (my family owns an ice cream shop back in MI), Sushi, Bibimbap, and Imperial Stouts (I'm like 90% sure they count as food).

Games: Anything competitive; I'll kick your ass in Mario Kart or give you a high-five for beating me. Cards Against Humanity is probably the best card game ever (protip: try using its cards for Pictionary).

Podcasts: This American Life, TED Radio Hour, Good Job Brain, A Life Well Wasted, Radiolab, Debug.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether my brother listening to audio books can be considered 'reading' them.

How much I want to live in another country again. I miss the excitement of never being completely sure of yourself or what's happening - of always discovering something new.

Also, why people are so hesitant to meet other people from OKC. I mean, I get 'new and potentially crazy,' but we meet total strangers at bars or out and about every day; shouldn't that be more scary than someone you know at least a little about?
On a typical Friday night I am
Singing. It doesn't matter if it's in the car on a road trip, at a bar, in a club, or at home. I'll probably be found singing something either softly under my breath, or loudly and drowned out by music. Wherever it is, I'll be happy doing it. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once brought the sheet music to Elton John's Crocodile Rock to my fourth grade music class for everyone to sing... It was not well received.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You made it through this book I call a profile,
-You live somewhere relatively close,
-You aren't afraid to actually meet up in person,
-You think we'd have fun hanging out,
-You're ready for an adventure,
-You want to use a Groupon with me. :)