I was asked about the screen name I chose, so I thought I would explain it as well here. I'll start with the kitten part. It describes my cuddly, playful, loving, and affectionate side. I'm a big kitten at heart. As to the Nocturne part, its a little more complicated. The definition I use for Nocturne is the following: "Nocturne painting is a visual language that is often used within realistic treatments (such as Realism and Impressionism) to depict scenes evocative of night or subjects as they appear in a veil of light, in twilight, or in the absence of direct light." I use Nocturne to depict the twilight part. I have a little bit of a dark side with my humor and such, but at the same time, I'm not totally dark, and am a nice guy. Overall, I'm just a big lovable kitten who can be a little naughty at times. I've heard my fair share of jokes and dirty/naughty jokes. I've seen South Park, Futurama, saw the South Park and Futurama movies too. I guess the point is, I'm not totally innocent and do enjoy things like that as well. I do tell jokes, I can make comments about things, and I don't let people walk on me. While I do lean feminine, I am still a guy, I just like to think of myself as a more caring, loving, sensitive, and affectionate one. What I mean by that is, I still like guy things as well. I'll laugh at a dirty joke, as long as its not stupid or just plain disgusting. I still like to play video games, watch TV (cartoons or anime usually, along with NCIS and stuff, but not so much sports), go to movies, dig into a pizza, lounge around with people, watch comedy shows, and overall just try and have fun. I can be serious when I need to be but, frankly, life is too short to be serious 24/7...you need to have fun too.
For my interests, I enjoy video games, cartoons, anime, comedy, soccer, computers, and writing. I do have other interests as well, like music with bands such as Nightwish, Evanessence, Sonata Arctica, 30 Seconds to Mars, and Linkin Park. I play games like Everquest and other MMO games. I also play ones like Halo, Mass Effect, Warcraft, Warhammer, and I'm sure if I looked, I still have my Magic cards laying around here somewhere. I'm not too big into clubs or bars. Comedy wise, I like Carlos Mencia, George Carlin, Lewis Black, Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, Ralphie May, Jeff Dunham, and several others.
In relationships, I tend to have a dominant personality, but being feminine, its more snuggly and loving. I have done some with d/s relationships, and find I enjoy those as well. Its not a requirement, but I mention it to give a better understanding of me. I have taken a submissive role in relationships too, with a dominant female. I guess I kind of flop back and forth with that depending on who I end up with, but a regular relationship is fine as well. (On the dom/sub test, I score between Assertive Submissive and Master depending on mood) I guess I'm just saying I'm open to things outside of the norm, but the norm is perfectly fine as well. In the end, I just want someone to love and snuggle that likes what I do. I probably shouldn't mention that but, I'd rather lay it all out for people. I'm rather open and honest, and try my best to just be who I am.
I consider myself a gamer, maybe even a bit of a geek. I love video games of all kinds, anime, cartoons and would adore someone to share that with. I also love movies. Cuddles are great too, and snuggles, and well...you get the idea.
When it comes to a girl...I want someone who shares interests with me. Someone who is just as snuggly as I am, and likes to spend time with me. I like girls with a cute personality, and someone who is okay with me being a bit more on the feminine side. I place more value on their personality and how I feel about them emotionally. It's more important to me that we match personality and interests, and I would hope they'd value the same. I also want someone that doesn't judge me, and can accept who I am, faults and all. Our faults are what make us unique, and accepting them is just as important as the good parts. Overall, I just want a loving and accepting girl, who I can cuddle on the couch with or teach to play a video game with me. Someone who'd want to share a pizza with me, catch a movie, and then spend a quiet night at home. Someone I could wake up and watch cartoons with, or find an anime we'd both want to see and pop it in the dvd player. Someone who can be just as silly as I am, and can enjoy a joke, even if its a little on the dirty side. (see my list of comedians for an idea of what I mean) Someone that if I start ranting about something dumb they'll just look at me and start laughing. Someone who is open-minded, and even if I like something they don't, they won't look at me like I have 3 heads. Someone who, if I ever decided to start dressing goth-like again and started wearing my collar again, wouldn't hesitate to grab me by the collar and hug and/or kiss me then give me an innocent little smile afterward. Overall...I guess I'm looking for, how does the saying go...the goof to go with my ball?
I am affectionate, loving, and loyal