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30 M Queensbury, NY

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Last Online
Apr 26, 2010
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Where to begin...I'm a 25 year old male. I'm about 5'6", and average body, with a little bit of a tummy. I have blonde-brown hair and blue eyes. Personality wise, I feel that I'm a more feminine male, though everyone thinks of feminine differently. For me, its not physical, nor do I dress that way. For me, its emotional and personality. I value and appreciate things like love, affection, sensitivity, and emotions. I'm more in touch with that side of me. (On the test, I go between ISFP and INFJ) I'm in touch with my feelings and do my best to share them when able. I'm very affectionate and snuggly, and enjoy spending a lot of time with someone I love. I find it odd that people date and then find excuses to spend time apart. For me, I'd like to spend plenty of time with my special someone, whether is be going out somewhere, or spending a quiet night curled up on the couch together. I think that I'm very sweet, and do my best to keep my partner happy. I listen to them and ask what I can do for them. For me...I'd like a long and lasting, loving relationship. I'm loyal to my partner, and just want to find someone to love.

I was asked about the screen name I chose, so I thought I would explain it as well here. I'll start with the kitten part. It describes my cuddly, playful, loving, and affectionate side. I'm a big kitten at heart. As to the Nocturne part, its a little more complicated. The definition I use for Nocturne is the following: "Nocturne painting is a visual language that is often used within realistic treatments (such as Realism and Impressionism) to depict scenes evocative of night or subjects as they appear in a veil of light, in twilight, or in the absence of direct light." I use Nocturne to depict the twilight part. I have a little bit of a dark side with my humor and such, but at the same time, I'm not totally dark, and am a nice guy. Overall, I'm just a big lovable kitten who can be a little naughty at times. I've heard my fair share of jokes and dirty/naughty jokes. I've seen South Park, Futurama, saw the South Park and Futurama movies too. I guess the point is, I'm not totally innocent and do enjoy things like that as well. I do tell jokes, I can make comments about things, and I don't let people walk on me. While I do lean feminine, I am still a guy, I just like to think of myself as a more caring, loving, sensitive, and affectionate one. What I mean by that is, I still like guy things as well. I'll laugh at a dirty joke, as long as its not stupid or just plain disgusting. I still like to play video games, watch TV (cartoons or anime usually, along with NCIS and stuff, but not so much sports), go to movies, dig into a pizza, lounge around with people, watch comedy shows, and overall just try and have fun. I can be serious when I need to be but, frankly, life is too short to be serious 24/ need to have fun too.

For my interests, I enjoy video games, cartoons, anime, comedy, soccer, computers, and writing. I do have other interests as well, like music with bands such as Nightwish, Evanessence, Sonata Arctica, 30 Seconds to Mars, and Linkin Park. I play games like Everquest and other MMO games. I also play ones like Halo, Mass Effect, Warcraft, Warhammer, and I'm sure if I looked, I still have my Magic cards laying around here somewhere. I'm not too big into clubs or bars. Comedy wise, I like Carlos Mencia, George Carlin, Lewis Black, Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, Ralphie May, Jeff Dunham, and several others.

In relationships, I tend to have a dominant personality, but being feminine, its more snuggly and loving. I have done some with d/s relationships, and find I enjoy those as well. Its not a requirement, but I mention it to give a better understanding of me. I have taken a submissive role in relationships too, with a dominant female. I guess I kind of flop back and forth with that depending on who I end up with, but a regular relationship is fine as well. (On the dom/sub test, I score between Assertive Submissive and Master depending on mood) I guess I'm just saying I'm open to things outside of the norm, but the norm is perfectly fine as well. In the end, I just want someone to love and snuggle that likes what I do. I probably shouldn't mention that but, I'd rather lay it all out for people. I'm rather open and honest, and try my best to just be who I am.

I consider myself a gamer, maybe even a bit of a geek. I love video games of all kinds, anime, cartoons and would adore someone to share that with. I also love movies. Cuddles are great too, and snuggles, and get the idea.

When it comes to a girl...I want someone who shares interests with me. Someone who is just as snuggly as I am, and likes to spend time with me. I like girls with a cute personality, and someone who is okay with me being a bit more on the feminine side. I place more value on their personality and how I feel about them emotionally. It's more important to me that we match personality and interests, and I would hope they'd value the same. I also want someone that doesn't judge me, and can accept who I am, faults and all. Our faults are what make us unique, and accepting them is just as important as the good parts. Overall, I just want a loving and accepting girl, who I can cuddle on the couch with or teach to play a video game with me. Someone who'd want to share a pizza with me, catch a movie, and then spend a quiet night at home. Someone I could wake up and watch cartoons with, or find an anime we'd both want to see and pop it in the dvd player. Someone who can be just as silly as I am, and can enjoy a joke, even if its a little on the dirty side. (see my list of comedians for an idea of what I mean) Someone that if I start ranting about something dumb they'll just look at me and start laughing. Someone who is open-minded, and even if I like something they don't, they won't look at me like I have 3 heads. Someone who, if I ever decided to start dressing goth-like again and started wearing my collar again, wouldn't hesitate to grab me by the collar and hug and/or kiss me then give me an innocent little smile afterward. Overall...I guess I'm looking for, how does the saying go...the goof to go with my ball?

I am affectionate, loving, and loyal
What I’m doing with my life
I'm getting ready to go back to school to work on getting a degree and certificates for the hardware aspect of computers. I'd like to build and fix them, as well as work on networking, and some minor software things. I'm also trying to find that special someone I can be nerdy and goofy around, and wake up and watch cartoons or anime with.
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good with computers, and video games. I think I'm a good writer. I write short stories of varying kinds in my free time. I'm also a really good snuggler. *giggles* I think I have an okay sense of humor, and I'm good at sharing my feelings with others, and listening to others problems and helping them.
The first things people usually notice about me
They usually notice how cute and affectionate I am. Also how snuggly I can be. They also tend to notice how concerned I am for people I care about. They probably notice I'm not all that tall either, and that I like to dress goth-like at times. I guess the fact I'm a gamer sticks out too. Overall...I guess I'm a bit odd and stick out, but overall people think I'm nice to be around. Oh...also my brutal honesty sticks out. Brutal honesty, for me anyways, its honesty combined with bluntness...a wanting to just say it and get it out there and not beat around in the bush about it so to speak. Unfortunately, this seems to get me in trouble sometimes, when I just answer something, and the way I answer it comes across odd or strange...or any other variety of unlikable results. They notice I'm a bit shy and awkward when they first meet me, but when they get to know me, I open up and am a good person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
One of my favorite books was Nightfall by Isaac Asimov, as well as a few of his other works. I read a few of the Alien vs Predator books, and a couple Star Trek Voyager ones too. I tried reading Dune was a looong book. I also read some comics online too, like LFG comic and the likes. I'm into fantasy mostly; past, present, or futuristic. I do read other things as well.

Movie wise...the original Frank Herbert's Dune was pretty good. I also saw most of the James Bond movies, Star Trek, Star Wars, saw the Stand Alone Complex anime movie, even watched the South Park movie, hehe. I watched the Futurama movies, the National Treasure movies, Aliens, Alien vs Predator, American Pie, Scary Movie, The Matrix, the Predator movies, Punisher, Spiderman, Underworld, Tremors, Mission Impossible, and I'm sure there are a ton of others I've seen.

Not that this question asked but...TV time! I like shows like The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, South Park, Futurama, CSI, NCIS, Law and Order, Angel, Charmed, Mad TV, Scooby Doo, Tom and Jerry, Code Lyoko, and I'm sure there are more cartoons and shows I watch too.

Not that this was asked either...but, games! I like Everquest, Warcraft, Warhammer, City of Heroes, Halo, Mass Effect, Unreal, any strategy game, a lot of FPS or First person shooters, and RPGs or Role playing games.

Music...I really like Nightwish, Evanessence, and Sonata Arctica. I also like music of similar sounding bands. I listen to a few other bands too...some Rammstein, the songs Origa did for Stand Alone Complex, a little techno, Linkin Park, 30 Seconds to Mars, Nickelback, Korn, Green Day, Disturbed, Staind, Mudvayne, Papa Roach, Offspring, Rob Zombie, System of a Down, Fort Minor, Seether, Trapt, and I'm sure there are others.

And and chicken are yummy, also love cheese and pepperoni on my pizza. Oh...and a nice stack of pancakes and/or waffles...yum. Milk and cookies? Count me in. =D I'm a bit of a picky eater really, and I admittedly do eat Spaghettio's still...what? They are yummy and quick to make...don't judge me!

Oh, and if you can draw, bonus points! =) I love seeing the artwork people can make themselves.
The six things I could never do without
My computer and the internet
Affection and snuggles
Video games
Cartoons and anime
Quiet moments with someone you love

I know air, food, water, a shower, clothes and all that are necessary...but I think those are a given otherwise everyone would have more or less the exact same answers...wonder if they thought about that when making this box...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life, my experiences, and who I'd want to love and snuggle. Did I mention snuggles already? *giggles* I daydream a lot about my ideal partner, how cute and affectionate she would be, how we'd enjoy a lot of time together and try to enjoy each others interests. I wonder a lot about how my relationship would go, and what kind it would be. I've had a few different types, so I guess its something I come back to now and then and try to see myself in different kinds and which would make me happiest. I also wonder if sometimes I come across too silly as that sounds. I guess I worry I sound a little too nice and cute, and that I couldn't or wouldn't enjoy things like George Carlin's humor or that I sound more feminine than I really am. I am still a guy after all...just a nicer and snugglier one...if that's even a word. Now that I think about it...I seem to make a lot of words up...
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, watching comedy shows or movies, playing games with friends, or working on stories. Granted, if I was with someone, my friday night would involve them. *giggles* Though I'm not too sure I really have typical days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like wearing collars and think nekos (cat girls) and goths are cute.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to know more about me, or would like to get to know me more as a friend or maybe something more.

Also if you are interested in finding a really nice guy to care for you and love you, and be your little snuggle bear. *giggles* Also, message me if you are looking for a serious relationship, not someone to mess around with. I'm looking for love with someone like-minded and that shares my interests and likes me for me, as odd as I may be at times.

What I ask:
-You enjoy cuddling and consider yourself affectionate.
-You like, or at the least, tolerate the things I like
-You are open-minded
-You like, or wouldn't mind learning to play video games, or can at least tolerate a gamer.
-You are looking for a serious relationship.
-You value personality.
-You don't mind someone that is shy in the beginning.
-You want a more sensitive, caring, and cuddly guy. I'm not the so called "typcial male" and never will be, nor will I know how to fix your car or redo the plumbing.
-You are accepting.
-You wouldn't mind waking up and watching cartoons.
-You have at least looked at my profile and my test results. I know you can't get to know all that a person is by some text on a page, but I have taken a good amount of time to explain myself as best I can, and would appreciate if you at least read it.

I'm a bit shy, but please bare with me and feel free to send me a message. I will respond to any message I get at least to say hello back, so please feel free to write me. Winks are fine as well.