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26 M Ashland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Things that will not happen: Adventures, lots of social stuff, or spending money.

Things that will happen: Making things and then revising them endlessly until they're the child nobody could possibly have. Also pretend baby-making (no promises), confronting uncomfortable truths because it's fun the way breathing is, the occasional nihilistic dance off/grind, thinking of stuff that isn't immediately around us, and rampant media consumption followed by lively discussions.

There's plenty of types that do that because they balance their hearts with their heads, so lets get into specifics:

Politics/criticism also matter to me a fuckton. I'm Mckinnon > Dworkin, Ward Churchill > Winston Churchill, Parenti > Chomsky, Achebe > Jackson, Campbell > Watts, Manute Bol> Molag Bal, etc, etc, etc. Heteronormativity, racism, lookism, etc, etc, etc, annoys the living shit out of me, as does anybody who simply can't place themselves in another's shoes. Conservative thinkers lose my interest quick -I seriously don't care what your tenants are.

I prize semantics over the information it expresses.

Dorks need not apply and normies must have a wicked side.
What I’m doing with my life
How about what life is doing to me?


I'll write/edit anything- and until I have another crash-egg it's full time :( Current topics include crowd sourcing, motors, Legos, software, fitness, travel, medicine, and self help.


Figuring out ways to stop freelance writing. The top two contenders are going to graduate school to teach braille and raising iguanas in Miami. Iguanas are super awesome, particularly when they're pronounced "Igwanna."


I value expression, most particularly when the topic harnesses allegory or uses craft to drive theme.

Propaganda is pretty fun to study.

Until losing all my blades I'd taken up knife throwing. That's fun when it's not raining, but I keep losing the things and missing the mark. Nothing has died...yet...that I know of.
I’m really good at
Long walks on the street
Recalling details and making people uncomfortable
Smiling at inappropriate times
Finding stuff
Weeviling through lines
Guessing expectations
Talking/writing too much
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my bewildered smile or get-it-done scowl I'd think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Total entertainment junky but this is some of the information I like/collect and took the time to list. Hazards of the job. Anyway:

Music: Liturgy, Swans, Nick Cave, LFO, Harvey Milk, Seth Augustus, Alela Diane, Beats Antique, Lungfish, Torche, Humanwine, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Chris Black, Jay Munly, Fugazi, Kylesa, Miwa Gemini, Sleep, Shellac, Crystal Castles, Burro Banton, Grails, Rasputina, High on Fire, Cobalt, Obituary, Om, Pati Yang, Primus, Earth, pixies, Turing Machine, Do Make Say Think, Califone, Younger Brother, Pretty Lights, MIA, Helmet, Tom Waits, Flux Pavilion, The Breeders,

Books: Shadow Country, Oryx and Crake, Joe Abercrombie, The Forsyte Saga, A Distant Mirror, Henderson the Rain King, The Power and the Glory.

Movies: The American Astronaut, Repo Man, Doubt, Intacto, Ran, Culloden, Fallen Angels, Triad Election, Barry Lyndon, Before the Devil Knows You're Dead, History of Violence, Mephisto, The Messenger: The Story of Joan of Arc, The Proposition, Naked Lunch, Sexy Beast, Glengarry Glen Ross, Kingdom of Heaven, Blade Runner, Flesh & Blood, The Lion in Winter

T.V shows: Texhnolyze, John Adams, The Tudors (season 1 only), Deadwood, The Wire, Venture Bros, Planetes, Treme

Food: I'll eat anything provided it doesn't lead to ebola or whatever.

Also, I've played lots of CRPGs.
The six things I could never do without
My nervous system and all five senses.
On a typical Friday night I am
Raising hell, writing, getting an early night's sleep, or something I didn't count on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Long story short: I'm missing some teeth (molars, my smile is still intact) because when I was younger people thought I was inviting sucker punches and gang beatings. The careful-chewing thing still pisses me off, but there's a lot of better things I could spend my money food and shelter.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
**Seriously, sex is fun and shit but there's a solid chance I'm not interested if you can't look yourself in the mirror and think "I'd bone that."**

Prefer people over social roles.

Also, we just won't get along if your mood doesn't lift while listening to Battles' and Yamantaka Eye's "Sundome." Erm...