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49 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am no good at thinking of what to say in these things. . .

I am 5' 8", need to lose a few pounds, though I think I look ok and many people tend to describe me as a teddy bear. I am basically just an average joe.

I am not a "Denzel" or "50 cent" type, I am known more for my intelligence and personality than anything else. I am a bit shy at first until I get to know someone, with a bit or sarcastic manner and sense of humor.

I am basically just one of the "nice guys" that somehow gets overlooked or ends up the friend -- which is not in itself bad, but it gets to be redundant after awhile. I may not seem flashy or attention grabbing at first, but have worth within me.

I am unique, eccentric, and sarcastic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live in Brooklyn and work for the city in the Health Field. I am an avid reader and sometimes write.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening (Yeah, I'm every woman's "brother" - sarcasm here), Observing People, Miscellaneous information (Jeopardy anyone? LOL)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My face and the fact that I wear glasses. It gives them the first impression that I am intelligent and sort of nerdy, but nice (though I am not ashamed to state I am proud of my intelligence - Nerds Rule and are hot!).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Too many to name, though my favorite genre is roman noir/hard-boiled detective novels.

Movies: I tend to go for Old Black & White Movies, Mysteries and Science Fiction, as well as current Sci-Fi. I like a good comedy as well.

Music: I like everything from New Wave, Old School R&B, Jazz. I can listen to pretty much everything except Rap and Heavy Metal music.

Food: I love all types of food from Thai, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Steak and Potatoes, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without my family, friends, books, music, computer, and I guess my cell phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to figure out what people think about and what motivates their behavior.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I enjoy getting out when I can and sharing a good meal, or drinks over conversation. Hanging out with friends. I also like to walk about and enjoy the city.

I enjoy relaxing having a drink while reading, or checking out the infrequent good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a bit shy.... And I do not know how to use chopsticks, despite knowing Asian friends for the past 40+ years and having Dim Sum almost every week
You should message me if
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Can relate to a person who may be a bit of an introvert at first glance, but you can take the time to get to know the inner person. Message me if you like to meet someone who is cynical and sarcastic, but intelligent, loyal, fun to hang out with to observe and enjoy the crazy city around us.