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25 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 4
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
What's fun about me? I often want to go have an adventure... but then I kinda want to sleep in for a while. I dip my toes in a lot of worlds like that. It's led to some fun experiences, many ill-advised. When I needed to learn another language, I shipped myself off halfway across the world for a year. I've free climbed by moonlight, fought a Muay Thai match against a living wall of muscle (I woke up on the floor after that one), and been resuscitated perhaps more often than is healthy.

But the thing is, on an average day I'm more than likely going to want to spend a quiet evening in with a friend. Watch a movie, get dinner, or just talk. I'm not afraid of new experiences, but you don't need to be Rambo to keep up with me. In fact, to be perfectly honest I wouldn't consider half crazy Vietnam vets to be my ideal match. So if that describes you, probably keep looking.
What I’m doing with my life
I got my bachelors a few years back. Studied history, economics, and German, hoping to work in intelligence. Then news comes out and it turns out they're working on some stuff I don't particularly approve of. Now I have an interesting and specialized set of skills useful for essentially nothing.

For about two years I worked in sales. I was actually pretty decent at it, it turns out I get along with just about everybody. Thing is, I hated the nature of the work, and hated myself for doing it. Now I work a low quality job, and while I miss the paychecks, it's nice being able to sleep at night.
I’m really good at
Right hooks, knee strikes, deliberately misunderstanding questions....

Listening and reading critically, being curious and learning from everything and everyone, keeping my mind open to the possibility that my beliefs are based on bad information or faulty reasoning. Looking before I leap, but then kinda just leaping anyway if I don't see a clear landing zone. Hazy landings often make the best stories.

Acquiring a menagerie of strange and interesting friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm big. About 180 lbs and 6'1. I'm hard to offend, and even harder to embarrass. My sense of humor's often pretty dark. I tend to speak in abnormally correct English (byproduct of the time and money I wasted getting my degrees), but I don't give a damn how others speak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I haven't yet found a way to organize this section that doesn't make it seem entirely nongenuine. So I'll leave it at this: I'm moderately well read, I practically never watch tv, I enjoy movies but rarely have the patience to watch them lately, and while I love and spend a lot of time with music, I know very little about it.
The six things I could never do without
-Lakes, oceans, rivers
-Martial arts
-Thai and Mexican food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am prepared for the zombie apocalypse. Like, really prepared. I also spend a lot of time reading about the economy (one of the fields I studied) and foreign policy. Updates on Syria make me sad, and are the leading cause of scotch consumption for me.

Getting kicked in a pressure point is basically the most painful thing ever, and I wonder a lot if there's a better way to fix that than being repeatedly kicked in pressure points. Conventional Muay Thai wisdom says no.
On a typical Friday night I am
Overwhelmingly likely that I'm being boring with my friends, slight chance that I'm doing something crazy that will later make a good story.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of my really close friends are female. Don't know why, it's not that I don't get along with guys, but generally the people I'm closest to are women.

I have a ridiculously unmanly weakness for dogs and hedgehogs. I adore dogs, and hedgehogs are just indescribably cute. I make no apologies for this.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I like strong women, and that can take a lot of forms. I dated a woman once who would have lost a fight to a fern, but had this unshakable resolve to work through whatever adversity hit her, and I really respected her for that. You don't need to be an amazon (although I do admittedly like amazons), but able to keep up on an occasional hike is nice. Unafraid to speak your mind is a huge plus, I sometimes get weirded out by submissive, passive people. I'm a switch, so sexually speaking passivity vs dominance isn't a major issue, but openness is pretty huge. Puritanism gets pretty trying, and after living in Eastern Washington I'm just kinda over dealing with it. I'm sex-positive through and through, even more so after having lived in Europe.

Und wenn man kann Deutsch sprechen, das ist auch sehr lustig. Aber wisst du, ich spreche noch schlecht nach ein Jahr in Deutschland. Ich glaube nicht dass ich verbessern.