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29 Goleta, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:04pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Now, this is a story all about how
My life got flipped-turned upside down
And I'd like to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how I became the single cat lady in a town called Santa Barbara

In Philadelphia Naval Base born and raised
In the library was where I spent most of my days
Chillin' out knitting sweaters all cool
And reading Goosebumps outside of the school
When a couple of stray dogs who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighborhood
I got one little bite and my mom got scared
She said 'You're movin' with your kitties to SB'

I texted for a Lyft and when it came near
The bumper had a pink mustache and it had the ocean in the mirror
If anything I could say that this car was rare
But I thought 'Nah, forget it' - 'Yo, bro to SB’

I pulled up to small apartment about 7 or 8
And I yelled to the driver 'Thanks, catch ya later'
I looked at my overpriced home
I was finally there
To sit on my throne as the Single Cat Lady of Santa Barbara


So a bit about me-- I'm kind, honest, and loyal to those who treat me well. My family is super important to me and will always be the #1 priority in my life. I enjoy learning and think it should be a life-long process, so while working full-time I have also been taking online classes w/SBCC (ie. Art History, Psych, Computer Science). I have a BA from UCSB but have often considered going to graduate school-- it's hard to make that decision though.

Routine is comforting to me, and I like staying in most nights. If I meet the right guy, I'd be happy to cook & bake as long as you're okay with me trying random new recipe's!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working the usual 8-5. Outside of work, I like to bake desserts from scratch, knit stuff, play with my cat Stitch, and hang out with friends and family.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
kicking ass and taking names.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my soft voice or blue eyes, I'm not quite sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food-wise, I like Korean food and would do nearly anything for some good kimbap and bulgogi. I lived in Seoul for a few years and miss the good food. Kimchi is a welcome addition at any meal for me. Besides that, I love Italian food, the Burger Bus, pork chops and mashed potatoes, anything unhealthy and tasty. Nom nom!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1-My family
2-My kitty
3-The internet
4-Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future and what the heck I'm going to do! Sometimes I think about moving back to the Bay Area as I felt most at-home and around 'my people' there. Southern California is nice but the Bay is where it's at for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
catching up with TV shows, browsing Reddit, then going to bed early cuz I'm exhausted!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm anxious quite often.
You should message me if
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you are kind and treat women with respect; value your family; stop whatever you're doing to help a lost/abandoned animal in need.

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