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37 F Silver Spring, MD

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a geek girl, who likes comics, scifi, fantasy and other geeks. I also have a passionate love of college football (SEC all the way!), baseball and professional cycling. I have random tastes.

I spend a huge chunk of time reading middle grade novels and picture books for work because I'm a children's librarian. I am super up to date on what's popular with the average 4 year old. Grown-ups? Well, I have seen adult books in the past year, does that count?

I'm an introvert and yet I've chosen to work in a public sphere, possibly because I'm a glutton for punishment?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a children's librarian. Which means I spend a good portion of my day being a rock star to the under 3 set.
I've started running somewhat recently. Ideally I'd like to run a 5K in the fall and a 10K next spring.
I’m really good at
Never being serious.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh. It's loud and I laugh easily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This means my "favorite" thing doesn't change as often as I change my socks. My favorite book? I have a lot, but ones I can go back to over and over would be Good Omens by Gaiman and Pratchett and A Wrinkle in Time by L'Engle.

My favorite super hero is Captain Marvel (Carol Danvers is my hero)
I'm a Marvel girl but I'm reading a lot of Image stuff right now as well. Sex Criminals and Pretty Deadly are my two new favorites. Really I feel like I'm building the DeFraction kids' college fund.

I'm not watching a huge amount of tv lately, which is weird for me. I like kind of typical slightly geeky shows, Sleepy Hollow, Stargate, Teen Wolf (yes Teen Wolf it's my secret shame). Justified, Community. A random Canadian sitcom called Corner Gas.

If I'm not listening to the radio, I've been listening to a lot of Athens, GA based bands lately. I used to live there and I've been missing that sense of place. So a lot of Soul Miner's Daughter, and Neutral Milk Hotel. Some REM, some B52s.
I love this trend of banjos in everything. There's nothing a banjo can't make sound better.
The six things I could never do without
Television, books, my friends, my family, the internet and clothes, I guess. I'm having trouble thinking of a sixth thing, and I don't really want to be naked all the time. I'd need a lot of sunscreen and I didn't names sunscreen as one of my six things. Damn it I should have put "sunscreen" instead of "friends".

Is it bad that I put television before my family? This really isn't a list in order of importance. It's not like I think tv is more important than family. I mean certainly not Immediate family.
On a typical Friday night I am
done with all people.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're kind of geeky or geek adjacent. Or maybe you have a burning desire to talk about middle grade fiction. I don't know. I won't judge. Come say hi.

As long as you're not a jerk, or a dudebro, or anyone who has ever uttered the phrase "friendzone" it's all good.