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35 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 8, 2005
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Polish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am modest, a strong silent type, and sapient

What I’m doing with my life
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Dreaming and telling. I've got a lot of things crammed in my brain waiting to get out, and the electric drill isn't an option, tempting though it may be. Care to join the queue? I may even skip you to the front of the line.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bullshit. You work at a call centre (I'm not a telemarketer, don't kill me!), it gets to be second nature. Now I'm doing my best to work on something else to be really good at: Fighting the urge to use it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My boyish good looks. On rare days, maybe even charm and wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Orson Scott Card's "Ender's Game" which I try to find time to read at least once a year, along with a good number of his other early works, including "Wyrms" and "The Worthing Saga". Ursula Le Guin's "Earthsea Cycle" (never saw the miniseries which I hear is dreadful anyway), along with everything else of hers that I've ever read. Harry Harrison's "Bill the Galacitic Hero" series, which allowed me to survive as a child during my many groundings.

Movies: It's not an original answer, but I must say that "Lord of the Rings" is among my favourite film series. Much of Hayao Miyazaki's work has appealed to me ever since I was a kid and saw "Nausicaa". And, just to spice things up, I'll also mention that I enjoyed "The Fifth Element", mostly because of the fantastic imagery that pervaded it.

Music: Here, on this website, in this paragraph, I shall expose to the world one of my deepest darkest secrets. My favourite music is actually Japanese New Age music. Shun me if you must, but Kitaro has always been a source of inspiration for me. Listen to Tunhuang some day and you might understand. If people knew how much of my work is based on his music, they... probably would keep liking my work but I'd likely get some funny looks.

Foods: Polish food. Potato pancakes, paczki, kluski na parze, etc. I especially love the smell of a good Polish sausage, the scent balancing the blood and the spices in just the right way. I'm hungry now. I hope I still have some left in the fridge.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet. Otherwise, I might actually have to make an effort to keep in touch with my buddies.

My seemingly limiteless capacity for dumb luck. I'm serious, greater men than I have wound up with less.

Dreams. I'm not sure I'd enjoy life as much if my mind didn't put things in a less serious light at night.

The concept of the potato pancake. The world would be a much sadder place without this delicious starchy fatty food.

Music. I've tried living without it before, though not by choice. I wound up irritable and dull, as though I'm suffering from withdrawl of some kind of drug.

My buddies. My excuse for being on the internet, and just the right negative influence to make everything interesting.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Other worlds that I can create. Adventures that I can write about. Those weird little things that we might take for granted but would make the world so different if we took them all away or put a few in.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work. SAVE ME!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really do like Kitaro. Makes some really nice music that you can ponder to. May not seem like a big deal to make a secret, but I'd rather people just saw me as a geek, not an uber-geek. Now that I think on it, I may as well let it loose. Consider this my most private thing that's officially gone public.
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