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26 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:27pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Khmer (Poorly)

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My self-summary
All you really need to know is: I'm sciencey, literary, musicy and adventurous. If you are any/all of these things, we will probably hit it off.

If you're still curious, other relevant stuff:
- I like novels a lot. Kurt Vonnegut gets my soul.
- I'm big on copious honesty.
- I'm happy when learning and growing.
- "Feminism" to me means being a decent person.
- I may try to offend you with a twisted joke.
- Let's discuss the big confusing issues.
- INTJ is the best MB descriptor of me, but it's not all that accurate.
- I don't like gender roles. Sometimes I want to be the little spoon.
- You may find me in my natural habitats of Cinema Nova, cheap bars, nature, travelling or playing music.

I'm looking to befriend interesting/fun/intelligent people. If there's physical chemistry that's great too (there probably will be after you hear my "neutron walks into a bar" joke).
I'm not actively seeking a relationship, but I'm not against them either.
What I’m doing with my life
I spent last year teaching in Cambodia. This is still big in my heart.
Now I'm back to doing science, cycling about, working on a shitty novel, hanging out in Brunswick, re-learning French and playing bass in a band.
I’m really good at
Verbal sparring, explaining science in normal-person language, getting into weird situations, hauling my pack through slummy streets, DnMs, guitaring, hugs, empathy, grammar, beating the shower timer.

I'm not good at:
Small talk (see: the weather/celebrity gossip), overly formal settings, deciding things for other people.
The first things people usually notice about me
Obviously my roguishly good looks. Or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Cat's Cradle, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Catcher in the Rye, Ender's Game, Lolita, To Kill a Mockingbird, Catch-22, A Clockwork Orange, the Dice Man, Day of the Triffids, Vonnegut, Bukowski, Palahniuk, Shakespeare

Movies: Persepolis, Amélie, Choke, Seven Psychopaths, Pulp Fiction, Lord of the Rings, Snatch, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Wall-E, Paprika, Her, Waking Life

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Archer, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Parks and Recreation, Weeds, Dr Who, Daria, Firefly

Music: Modest Mouse, Radiohead, Muse, the Dismemberment Plan, the National, Radical Face, Dresden Dolls, Built to Spill, Pixies, Queens of the Stone Age

Food: pizza, pasta, Thai, Mexican, Indian, anything from Vegie Bar, tofu/lentil type dishes, bananas, coffee, alcohol
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All the free online courses I want to do, song lyric meanings, neuroscience/consciousness, how to help the world, Bokononism, what the perfect job would be, the Bechdel test, my to-do list
On a typical Friday night I am
Plotting to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a weird thing for spreadsheets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think we'd get along and want to meet in person.
If you know a cool place to go/thing to do, you want to discuss a book that we've both read, see a movie, play a game of chess, or grab a drink and get to know each other.