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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism and it’s important
Post grad
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I was born and raised in the North of Germany and moved to NYC in 1998. Love the city but also miss my friends in Europe and the advantages of life over there.
When I think about myself I come up with lots of attributes that seem contradictory....silly and serious, deep and shallow, young and old, content and frustrated, and many more....:-)
Attributes that I value most are: honesty, integrity, kindness, compassion, loyalty, and genuineness.
I'm ideally looking for a long-term partner who wants to build a life together. Someone who likes to take care of himself and others, someone who is independent yet appreciates interdependence, someone who is willing to explore the depth of the possibilities of a loving relationship - emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and intellectually...
I am a Buddhist and my meditation practice has changed me in a very good way...:-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to live today, not yesterday or tomorrow :-)
I'm a change manager and apply that most of all to myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and how easy I am to get along with...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food is easy: PASTA in all variations, but refraining bravely from having it most of the time. Pretty open to most cuisines, not a big fan of seafood, especially not raw...
Movies: pretty broad taste. Romantic Comedies, Thrillers, Adventures, Nature documentaries....
Music: also varied. From classical music (took voice lessons for many years) to contemporary pop....I really like Lady Gaga for using music and social media to bring her message across.
Books: I used to read constantly when I was younger. Now I mainly read Buddhist books and research articles, books for work
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Honesty, Kindness, Sex, Life with its many surprises, My ability to adapt well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life and how I can improve mine
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with friends or crashing at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit a lot of private things - not on a public profile, though...
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