When I think about myself I come up with lots of attributes that seem contradictory....silly and serious, deep and shallow, young and old, content and frustrated, and many more....:-)
Attributes that I value most are: honesty, integrity, kindness, compassion, loyalty, and genuineness.
I'm ideally looking for a long-term partner who wants to build a life together. Someone who likes to take care of himself and others, someone who is independent yet appreciates interdependence, someone who is willing to explore the depth of the possibilities of a loving relationship - emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and intellectually...
I am a Buddhist and my meditation practice has changed me in a very good way...:-)