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NormLane

55 / M / bisexual / Available

Capitola, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
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Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am kinky, bisexual, and polyamorous.

My Self-Summary

I'm a bisexual, poly, SM switch and no, that doesn't mean I can't make decisions. ;)

I'm interested in friends/lovers.

I'm in an LTR and my partners know everything (and everyone) that I do. We occasionally share lovers but you shouldn't count on that.
Some pictures of us... http://www.sagatech.com/images/index.php?album=people&page=1

I don't bond closely with men so guys shouldn't look for much more than a casual friend, besides sex I mean.

People seem to find me attractive. I don't know if I would, assuming I met myself. Actually, that sounds like fun.

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What I’m doing with my life

I've quit struggling with my demons * and am determined to enjoy life as much as possible. Some of those demons have been chasing me for as long as I recall and, while I dislike taking so damn many drugs, it's wonderful to be relatively free of them.

* ADD & Bi-polar disorder for those that are curious.

I’m really good at

Procrastination. Pleasing a woman (I know, everyone says that.) Listening.

The first things people usually notice about me

Long hair

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

All the Patrick O'Brian books. GEB, 'On Intellegence', 'The Elegant Universe', 'Darwin's Radio.' Terry Pratchett, Harry Turtledove etc. This is nuts. I read 2-4 books a week and I'm not going to try and keep up here.

Deadwood, Battlestar Galactica, CSI, 24, Nova, Dexter, The Unit.

LTR, Master and Commander

I read a lot and spend a lot of time on the computer. I really should get out more.

I like spicy food; Thai, Chinese, Mexican. And MEAT! We didn't fight our way to the top of the food chain to eat rabbit food.

The six things I could never do without

Love, sex, books, meat, the ocean, a computer

I think it's pretty sad when people feel that cats or chocolate are more essential than love or sex. I assume that it's redundant to include air, food and shelter.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Artistic expression. By that I mean I spend a lot of time with digital photography and 3D imagery.

Travel. I've been doing some camping/RV'ing and love it.
Some places we've visited... http://www.sagatech.com/images/index.php?album=places

Lately I've been designing a three way hybrid trike. Gas, electric and leg.

Life, death, cosmology. I'll let you know when I have it all figured out.

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching the tube. Cuddling. Having sex.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Jeeze, I already mentioned that I'm nuts, what more do you want?

You should message me if

The idea crosses your mind. You'd like a friend/lover who's very accepting.

If you are uncomfortable with silence you'd be uncomfortable with me. I don't think it's necessary to chatter constantly in order to enjoy someone's company.