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36 Minneapolis, MN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:07pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Post grad
English (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a vaguely enjoyable job at a local corporation. I spend a lot of my spare time attending local music (pop and classical), playing board games with friends, discussing ideas that compel me, and hanging out on my porch with a cocktail and a book.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bow ties usually stand out in a crowd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Music: Magnetic Fields , Mos Def, Steven Reich, Joy Division , Nico Muhly, Charles Mingus, Arnold Schoenberg, Dirty Projectors, Deerhoof, Dosh, Kurt Weill, Tom Waits, Kill the Vultures, Rudresh Mahanthappa, Corey Dargel, etc.

Favorite Movies: The Third Man, Blue Velvet, Casablanca, Dressed to Kill, Psycho, Vertigo, Moon, A Pure Formality, Chasing Amy, Rashomon, Pi, Battle of Algiers, Persona, Lost Highway

Favorite Writers: Italo Calvino, T S Eliot, Martin Heidegger, Karl Marx, John Collier, Carl Sandberg, Judith Butler, Alex Ross, Philippe Van Parijs

Favorite Magazines: Foreign Affairs and Cabinet Magazine

Favorite TV Shows: I haven't owned a TV since the 90s, but thanks to the internet I watch again occasionally. Twin Peaks, The Prisoner (original), Archer, The Kingdom, Fishing with John, Arrested Development, and Mad Men.

Favorite Restaurants: Victory 44, Ice House, Victor's 1959 Cafe, Hell's Kitchen, Common Roots, Red Stag, and my guilty pleasure Taco Bell
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Refried Beans (black or pinto)
The rest are standard basic for high level primate survival: friends, shelter and such, but seriously, Beans and Gin. Not to be mixed together until ingested.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ethics, economics, metaphysics, politics, music and almost anything that will distract me from getting things taken care of around the house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Three activities generally split my Fridays. First rock shows, genre non specific popular un-popular music at small venues. Next, house parties with friends usually small numbers. Next, and most importantly, holing up in my study, porch or bedroom with a book, hiding from the humanity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't drive currently as I am a lapsed epileptic who has about one seizure a year. I bike and use mass transit. This is important as people outside of the city limits probably won't end up being a good match for me.

Also I have a pedantic streak that ends up leading me to be morally opposed to spelling "synch" as "sync" and other such things.
You should message me if
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Dates, drinks, and discussion sound like an intriguing time